1, easy to cause children's mood swings.

Parents' anxiety will affect their children. In particular, parents telling their children that they are willing to sacrifice everything for themselves will bring pressure to their children. If they do not do well, they will feel sorry for their parents. Therefore, learning is regarded as a burden.

2. deprive children of their autonomy and raise children who are difficult to be independent.

When children are young, they will not be allowed to do their own things, and they will not be given choices and decisions because they are "clumsy" and "ignorant". Even, everything should be arranged for the child, depriving the child of the opportunity to be independent, and as a result, raising a dependent child. Some children grow up and become miserable families.

3. Children often feel inferior.

Many parents will give their children negative marks when they see fluctuations in their academic performance. Over time, children will feel inferior and feel inferior to others. No matter how hard you study, you won't get any good results. Fall into a state of self-denial.

4. Children will have self-doubt.

Every parent is worried about the future of his children. If parents and children live together for a long time, if parents are anxious for a long time, children will feel that it is because of their poor performance, which will lead to parents' anxiety and impatience and make children change. If you are not confident, timid and not recognized, you will change from initial inferiority to autism.

5, it will make children feel disgusted.

When parents force their children to do something, they will resist and refuse to listen to their parents. In their view, these behaviors of parents are pinning their expectations for the future on them. When children start to rebel against their parents, the distance between parents and children is getting farther and farther.

How anxious parents educate their children correctly;

1, accept children and know how to let go.

Parents should learn to accept their children's mistakes and imperfections. When parents are anxious, it is easy to ignore that children are independent individuals. They want their children to do many things by themselves. Your parents made it for you. Parents can help appropriately; If children say they don't need it, don't force it to help them. As long as you trust the child, he can. All parents have to do is stay with them. Over time, children's self-confidence will be established. In fact, many things can be judged by children themselves, so that children can gradually become independent, and parents' anxiety in this regard will gradually be eliminated.

2. Clear boundaries and be a person with a sense of boundaries.

As parents, they can let their children know that learning is their own business, and cultivate their good study habits when their cognition and habits are not perfect. As for the details of the learning process, leave it to the children themselves. The same is true of other things, such as eating. After making the rules with the children, each of them should take their own responsibilities.

3. Respect children's feelings

Respect the child's feelings and natural rhythm, and the child will feel his existence and be happy for it. Happiness is the best nourishment to form a complete personality and vitality. The way to make children happy is simple. When your child is happy, be happy with him. When your child is depressed, understand his feelings and give him spiritual encouragement and support.