First, respect children. Many parents regard their children as their accessories. They think that if we give him a living and take care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation, he should listen to me. However, children are living individuals, and they have their own thinking. Parents should not be at their mercy or even make decisions for them; Let them complete their unfinished dreams instead of themselves. People should live for themselves first, shouldn't they? Second, guide children to find their own interests. Parents always ask their children to get good grades, be polite, respect the old and love the young. This leads to many children not knowing what they really like when they grow up. Therefore, I think that a pair of successful parents should be able to guide their children to find their own interests, rather than imposing their own interests on their children. People are born to suffer hardships, and interest can add countless fun to life, and at the same time, they can earn money to satisfy life.
Third, don't bind children with love. There is no denying that parents are really hard. However, all this is voluntary dedication of parents. We can often hear such remarks: I have worked hard to make money for you. Are you worthy of me? This is really a moral kidnapping of children, who are under great pressure under such selfless love. It seems that they are not living alone, but living behind their parents' backs. We don't deny the greatness of our parents, but please don't let such great love deteriorate and become the shackles of children.
No parents are born educators. However, every parent should have the ability to reflect. When you find that you are not doing well enough, you should correct it in time. It is wrong to think that you can never be wrong.