Tutoring is very important in one's life. The ancients said, "it is the feeling of birds and calves to raise without teaching." It can be seen that a good family education is particularly important for a child's life. If parents don't master the correct way of family education, there will be many problems, and some parents are not used to talking at ordinary times. Once a child makes a mistake, he always wants to reach out and hit the child. He is not allowed to explain or argue. This is particularly bad, and it is easy to cause children's rebellious psychology and produce serious rebellious psychology. Therefore, parents must learn to respect their children and talk to them on an equal footing. Mutual respect between people is very important. There is no good communication and interaction between parents and children. Especially in recent years, the popularity of smart phones has pushed the distance between people in every family farther and farther. Many parents spend more time on their mobile phones after coming home from work than on their children. Over time, children will not realize fatherly love and maternal love. ?
Secondly, parents often preach, nag and even ridicule their children. Over time, children will be irritable and prone to conflicts. The most terrible thing is that some children who are often laughed at and ridiculed by their parents will lose all self-confidence and become independent. ? Parents don't respect their children's privacy. Some parents like to peek at their children's diaries when they are sleeping, rummage through their schoolbags and peek at their children's online records when they are not at home. These are all violations of children's privacy. I want to remind you that you can pay attention to your child's behavior, but don't peek at or forcibly invade your child's privacy in the name of love, which will only lead to the child's complete distrust of his parents. Only pay attention to children's academic performance, and nothing else. I have seen many parents deprive their children of all activity time and arrange them to do book homework. They seem to pay special attention to their children's grades. In fact, this is a very wrong educational method.
Furthermore, parents can share their experiences with their children, but don't force them. There is an old saying: "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." Many parents like to force their rich life experience into their children and ask them to do it according to their own teaching methods. This is not right. The correct way is to let children learn from their own experience, or let them try to innovate according to their own ideas.
Every parent wants his son to be a dragon and his daughter to be a phoenix. Only a successful tutor will cultivate a successful child, and a failed tutor will cultivate a failed child. Educational methods are very important. I hope parents can be more patient, spend more time and energy to learn the correct educational methods and be the most important "teachers" in their children's lives.