reason things out
First of all, be reasonable, not once, not twice, not three times, but only three times to make it clear, to make it clear what is wrong and how to change it. The tone should be euphemistic, but also understand that there are still several opportunities to say at a time. Don't be cheeky, talk seriously.
Punish sb severely
If you commit another crime when the opportunity runs out, you must use very strict means and tone, and let him know that he is angry. At this time, you must resist, or other ways to make him suffer. You must not be soft-hearted. No matter how you ask, you must punish him. You must tell him that if he does something wrong, he will be punished. He is a man and will be responsible for his actions.
Praise and encouragement
Of course, if he makes even a little progress in the whole process, he should be praised. It is best to praise him in front of relatives and friends. When criticizing, he will secretly criticize himself at home, and the children will be very proud.
flexibility
When he is wrong, point out what he did wrong in front of others, but if you want to go home and tell you, stop and put the specific criticism at home. No matter what you do, you can educate your children in this way, be flexible, don't always fight, and don't always be unwilling to fight. Children are all good children, and how to develop their personality in the future depends on how their parents teach them. You can spoil it, but you can't get used to it The unreasonable requirement is to be cruel and unshakable no matter how noisy.