Never go against your child, because the adolescent child is not old enough and has some knowledge, but it is not enough to fully support his inner play. If you are against your child, it will easily arouse your child's disgust, which will make your child do some extreme things, such as dropping out of school, self-mutilation, running away from home and so on.

Grow up with children

Parents should follow their children's growth and adjust their discipline. Children of this age have just awakened their sense of autonomy and think they can think independently and don't like being bound.

Discuss, not order.

Therefore, parents can no longer communicate with their children by giving orders as they did when they were children. Discuss everything, even if you have a result in mind, discuss with your child and try to persuade him instead of forcing him to accept it.

Don't nag

Don't nag children, the more you talk, the more you contradict them, which will only annoy parents. Say everything once, tell him all the importance and consequences at once, and let him make his own decision.

Respect sb's privacy

Respect children's privacy. Parents need to find their own position, change their education methods with the changes of their children, give their children some free and independent space, respect their privacy, allow their children to make their own choices within the controllable range, and avoid conflicts with their children. When children realize that they are respected, they will also control their behavior and reduce their rebellious mentality.

Give children more freedom.

Give them more freedom. Adolescent children are often rebellious. If parents still want to use the usual way of education, only look at the problem from their own point of view, regardless of their own feelings, it will only have a negative impact. Giving them more free space and learning to be independent is also a way to help them grow up quickly.