The difference between mom and dad yelling.
Generally aimed at children's life and study problems.
Children's obedience, father's authority.
And the result?
After the child is reprimanded, his lifestyle is corrected and his academic performance may be improved.
It is easy to cause children to have rebellious emotions.
How to restrain emotions
(1) Ask yourself some questions.
Do you really want to scold him?
Will it be your own fault?
Why did you scold him?
② Take a deep breath
Take a deep breath before you want to lose your temper
Calm yourself down first.
3 divert attention.
I can't help it
, leave first or
"Do something else to distract you.
How to restrain emotions
④ communication
Usually pay more attention to communication with children.
Understand children's inner needs
So you can know yourself.
Are the methods and methods of education applicable?
Empathy
Before yelling at the children
Think about it first. If you were a child,
How do you feel after being yelled at?
Empathy
Feel and understand the child's behavior