1. Parents set an example for their parents: the power of example cannot be ignored, and it is an important way to influence and educate children with the good thoughts and behaviors of others. Students, neighbors, teachers, heroes and model figures should all be the objects of children's learning and imitation. Whether parents' words and deeds are right or wrong, they have a far-reaching impact on children. Therefore, parents should always behave themselves in their daily lives.

2. Give a certain environment: Parents should consciously create a good living environment for their children and let them be infected and edified. As the main place where children live, the relationship and lifestyle of family members will have a certain impact on children. Parents should organize their own lives, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish a good life order, and cultivate children's beautiful sentiments.

3. Make good use of criticism and punishment: both criticism and punishment are a denial of children's bad thoughts and behaviors and wrong things, but the latter is a means of education for serious events. When criticizing and punishing, we should first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific circumstances and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and whether it is necessary to punish them. Starting from the wrong reality, criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying children's thoughts and behaviors, making children feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. There is no need for irony, ridicule or abuse when criticizing. Even if it is punishment, it should mainly be deprivation of certain rights, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.

4. Guide and arrange life order: In life, a good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily lives, arrange their living environment, and teach them to study and use their time in an orderly way. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.

5. Do a good job in persuasion education: the specific method of persuasion education: talk, parents put facts and reason according to their children's thoughts, and let their children understand a certain truth. Speak with pertinence and flexibility, and have an amiable attitude. Don't be condescending and cynical. There is discussion, parents and children discuss together. When discussing, we should respect children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let children distinguish right from wrong. At the same time, it is important for parents to have the courage to admit that their views are incorrect.