Teacher Wen Feng began her lecture on parenting education with a question, "Why do you want to have children?" Everyone present, like a person who doesn't know where to go, doesn't even know where he is going, and naturally he will never get where he is going; How can a person who has no ultimate goal know the road under his feet? How many people live in other people's feelings, but they don't know the way under their feet. How much sense of responsibility will such people have? He sponsored his children to go to school for six years, but later, because he had cancer, he could not continue to sponsor these children to go to school. As a result, many parents of children wrote letters to insult him, and even parents of students called him a liar. Oh, my god It's really outrageous to hear such a story. These parents put the responsibility of educating their children on Project Hope and good people, and they take it for granted. They don't know their responsibilities as parents and can't raise their children, let alone let them receive a better education. The most important reason for all this is that all parents don't know why they want to have children. As Teacher Wenfeng said, "If you don't even know who you are, why do you want to have children?" ? How can you ask? "

Children are a world. But how many parents in life know their children's dreams? They just demand their children by their own standards. What kind of people do they want their children to be in the future? I hope my child is the first in my class and learn from XX next door. They forget that children who grow up under such requirements can only be replicas, not originals, and have no creativity at all. Then Teacher Wenfeng invited all the children who came to the venue to take the stage, and then asked them to introduce themselves one by one, asking the children to speak out their dreams and who their role models were. Children's dreams are naive: some want to be singers, some want to be caring people, some want to be learned people, some want to be doctors, army colonels and lovely children. His dream is to be a Xichang person, a Xichang person forever. Among them, the most touching is a child named Zhang Zhenyang. He said that his dream is to be a virtuous person, and his mother is. Speaking of this, not only Zhang Zhenyang's mother shed tears with excitement, but also many women present were red-eyed. In fact, many parents will only raise children, and will not find the characteristics of their children. A parent who has not found them will definitely not educate their children. Teacher Wen Feng said that the role of parents is to help children grow up in his interests, help children find their own goals and be a person with goals, rather than setting a goal for children to do. Yes, among the children invited to the stage are doctors, military generals, virtuous people and knowledgeable people. They are all people with dreams, and their dreams are enough to form a world. With these excellent children, will there be no hope for the future of the motherland?

Love is rich, not simply giving. Speaking of falling in love, Teacher Wenfeng is even more excited. She divides love into three layers: the first layer is the will to love. The more people love, the more love they get and the more happiness they get. Both parents love their children and want to put all their love on them. However, it is not enough to have will, because I don't know how to give it to my children, so I can only give 30% love. Then it leads to the second level of love, the method of love, accounting for 30%. Many parents are in love, but they seek help in society because they are poor and unable to support them. Without considering the child's self-esteem. The weaker the self-esteem, the lower the sense of accomplishment; The lower the sense of accomplishment, the lower the achievement. The third layer is the ability to love, accounting for 40% of the highest index. Men need to take responsibility, and women need to take responsibility. In real life, many men and women don't know what role they are in their children's minds. As the saying goes, you are old at the age of three. In fact, the period from birth to 3 years old is an important period for children's physical and intellectual development. However, many parents think that their children are too young to understand, and they do not shy away from quarreling and discussing other people's right and wrong in front of their children. Environment makes a person, family is the place where children are destined, and parents are the first people children meet. All words and deeds will be subtly copied to children.

God can go to every family in person, so he created the mother. This is the most beautiful compliment to mother in the world. But how many mothers have achieved the role of God? Many young parents work outside the home all the year round, leaving their children to their grandparents, and they also euphemistically say that they should send their children to a better school and do everything for them. But they don't know that if they have money, their children will be finished. What were these parents doing at first? Why were they not ready at first? There are also some mothers who will never study again once they get married and have children. Washing clothes, mopping the floor and playing mahjong occupy all their time. When a child has a problem, she only has a runny nose and tears. How hard is it for me to raise it? I should study hard, what will happen in the future, how can I be so disobedient. But as mothers, they have no learning ability and have not set an example for their children. Why do they ask their children to study? Asking children to listen? Teacher Wen Feng also said that a woman must be physically and mentally healthy if she wants to have the ability to love and give. A woman in poor health is not worthy of being a mother at all. The source of life comes from the mother's health. Only a healthy woman can give birth to a healthy life, while a child's IQ comes from the mother's nutrition, while the emotional intelligence health comes from the mother's mental health. Only mental health can cultivate children with high emotional intelligence. At the same time, mother is the pillar of a family, and the health of a family depends on this woman's wisdom and hands. Teacher Wen Feng talks about the importance of family health and nutrition, the harm of constipation to the body, and how to protect your liver and heart, so as to achieve a nutritional balance.