Because the present society is very different from my mother-in-law's era, we are now pursuing freedom and opening up, and my mother-in-law's thoughts in that era are also relatively feudal. It is also for this reason that my mother-in-law will think that we are not teaching correctly. When my mother-in-law was able to discipline her children well, she naturally felt more experienced than us. In fact, our generation is strict in disciplining children, because we all know that children should be disciplined strictly from an early age, so that children can be self-disciplined in the future. Nowadays, many mother-in-law especially spoil their children and give them whatever they want. However, this approach is obviously wrong. If my mother-in-law thinks we are too strict, we should have a good talk with him. We should tell him that the consequences of too loose and extensive education will be very serious, and we should also give some examples. Let mother-in-law know that if she doesn't discipline herself like this, she will harm herself and our whole family in the future.
Bian Xiao believes that if our way is really wrong, we should also reflect. The arrival of the child is not about one person, but about the whole family. Therefore, in disciplining children, we should make some efforts, and we can also combine the opinions of our mother-in-law when necessary. After all, they have brought so many children, and they must be more experienced than us. But you can't just listen to your mother-in-law's advice, because many old people are like babies to their grandchildren now, and many times their mother-in-law's behavior will hurt their children.
This is my opinion. Of course, everyone has different views, and everyone makes different choices in this situation. What would you do if it were you?