What are the top ten strategies for children's family education?

Family education refers to the education a person receives in the special social structure of family. Generally speaking, it refers to the influence from all aspects of the family from birth to family formation, including conscious knowledge transmission, moral education and conscious cultivation of family life atmosphere. The following are the top ten children's family education strategies I have compiled. Welcome to learn from them!

Ten strategies of children's family education set an example.

Example is an important way to influence and educate children with other people's good thoughts and behaviors. For example, classmates, neighbors, teachers, heroes and model figures, positive figures in literary and artistic works, and excellent qualities of revolutionary leaders are all objects for children to learn and imitate. Whether parents' words and deeds are right or wrong, they have a very profound influence on their daughters. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.

Environmental edification

Parents should consciously create a good living environment for their children to be infected and edified. Family is the main place where children live. Parents should organize their own lives, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish an orderly life order, and cultivate children's beautiful sentiments.

Criticism and punishment

Criticism and punishment are the negation of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is an educational means for serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we should first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific situation and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the wrong reality. Criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. When criticizing, don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive. Punishment is mainly deprivation of certain rights, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.

Arrangements to guide the order of life

A good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily lives, arrange their living environment, and teach them to study and use their time in an orderly way. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.

persuade and educate

The specific methods of persuasion education: First, talk. Parents should put facts and reason according to their children's thoughts, so that children can understand certain truth. Speak with pertinence and flexibility, and have a pleasant attitude. Don't be condescending and cynical. The second is discussion, where parents and children discuss together. When discussing, we should respect children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let children distinguish right from wrong. Parents should have the courage to admit that their views are incorrect.

Practical exercise

The content of practical exercise is quite extensive, such as adapting to the surrounding environment, exercising, taking care of yourself, housework, working independently, being polite, socializing and so on. To carry out actual exercise, we should first let the children know the purpose (why), put forward specific requirements (how to do it), and encourage them to overcome difficulties and stick to it. The content of exercises should be suitable for children's age characteristics and personality characteristics, and the tasks and requirements given should be based on children's actual ability and appropriate. Children should be allowed to make mistakes in practice and not be too demanding. Parents can't stop exercising because they are afraid of their children suffering.

Praise and reward

Praise and reward is to affirm and praise children's thoughts and behaviors. Through affirmation and praise, strengthen children's enterprising spirit and sense of honor, and strive for greater progress. Praise and reward should be realistic, timely and explain the reasons, and should be based on spiritual rewards, supplemented by material rewards.

Guide extracurricular reading

Guide children to read books, newspapers and magazines, and learn useful spiritual nutrition from them. Parents should master the content of children's reading, discuss with children, and guide children to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and get spiritual cultivation through reading.

Use home TV

When TV enters the family, children can gain a lot of knowledge from watching TV, increase their knowledge and make full use of it. But be careful: you can't have no choice and don't spend too long. After watching TV, talk to your children and discuss the TV content.

Lead children out to contact the society.

Take children to parks, scenic spots, shops, factories, and rural areas, or visit classmates, relatives, and friends for social interaction, so that they can broaden their horizons, get in touch with society, and get to know society.

The above is the introduction of ten methods for parents to educate their children correctly. Children should pay attention to the correct methods in educating their children, which is more acceptable to them.

Children's family education experience (1) Parents set an example for their children, schools actively guide them, and both sides make joint efforts.

We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are role models for their children. Only when they do it themselves will the children learn. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the education in it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results. My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't know how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects and became a sensible good child.

(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.

My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.

(3) Cultivate children's interest, and interest is the teacher.

When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that it was ok to play and play new tricks, such as making slides. When you show them to other children, you will have a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English now. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I know my son's Chinese is not very good, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.

(4) Punish children appropriately, actively guide them and be their good friends.

I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When we learned about it, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. Now my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is quite fun.

Dear teachers, parents and friends,

Hello everyone!

I'm Xue He's grandfather. First of all, I want to thank all the teachers for their careful training and education of the children. With the efforts of teachers, we have an excellent class.

Today, I am very grateful to Mr. Wang for providing me with such a platform to share my experience in educating children. Speaking of educating children, as a retired teacher, I have some experience in educating children. Now I want to share it with you. Please criticize and correct me.

First, pay attention to the accumulation in life.

"The world is full of knowledge, and the cultivation of human feelings is an article." This is a couplet of Ningfu in A Dream of Red Mansions, one of the four classical novels, which perfectly explains that "knowledge comes from life". On the way home from school, I skillfully borrowed slogans and pictures on the wall to guide my children to read and write. When playing in the park, guide the children to observe the changes of the four seasons. The park in spring, full of green, is full of flowers and green leaves.

Sweaty farmers, construction workers, passers-by enjoying the cool under the green trees on Binhe East Road at night, and rhubarb dog with his mouth open and his tongue sticking out by the roadside are all interpreting the hot summer days.

The harvested corn is golden; The joy of the busy farmer's uncle for the bumper harvest.

Wear thick down jackets when you go out in winter, and it is silvery white everywhere after it snows.

I took my children back to my hometown last summer vacation. When it rains, let them observe the cloudy sky, thunder and lightning, pouring rain. Knowledge is everywhere. We can learn with children in play, seek knowledge in play, and make children interested, easy to understand and remember. Why not?

Second, a little more encouragement; Less criticism; More comfort, less blame.

With the development of society and the innovation of education, great changes have taken place in children's educational methods. Nowadays, children are mostly princes (princesses) under the care of grandparents and parents. They have poor independence, strong self-esteem and don't know how to share. We should treat them in the same way as before, which will make them rebellious and not conducive to their growth. Our parents should give their children more encouragement and less blame; Discover more children's bright spots and less abuse; Let them not only know their own strengths, but also stimulate their curiosity. School teachers do this, and our parents should do it even more.

Third, mastering knowledge depends on implementation.

With the process of urban-rural integration, parents are eager for their children to succeed. As one of the best primary schools in Yangcheng County, the class size of experimental primary school is gradually increasing. Teachers have to complete the corresponding heavy teaching tasks in one day, but it is beyond their ability to consolidate and master the knowledge of each student. Therefore, the task of homework needs the cooperation and supervision of home and school. Parents should pay attention to the word "real" while helping their children finish their homework. For children's homework, children are required to think independently and complete it independently; We should check carefully, and if we find mistakes, we should not only correct them, but also consolidate several similar problems, so as to truly draw inferences from others and fully grasp the knowledge points.

Fourth, cultivate children's good habits.

When children do their homework, give them a relatively quiet environment and finish their homework at a fixed time. On the one hand, let him feel the atmosphere of the exam, on the other hand, let him not procrastinate and dawdle, and improve efficiency. Read a Tang poem before going to bed every night; Get up early and review. In the first grade, Qi Hao and Yu Qi once recited "Spring and Snow in Qinyuan". How did they recite it? Watch TV, play games and play moderately at a fixed time. Develop good living habits.

These are some of my experiences in educating children, not to mention any experience. I hope everyone will say that the speaker is innocent and warn those who hear it to take the essence and discard the dross.