While parents are busy making a living, they must take the time to learn more about their children, communicate with their children and their teachers, and try their best to fully grasp their performance in kindergartens and families. The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.

2. Absorb educational knowledge

The society is changing, the environment for children to grow up is also changing, and the way of education will naturally continue to improve. As parents, we should be duty-bound to actively absorb new educational knowledge. In the traditional way of parenting education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education.

3. Listen to your children patiently

If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to disobedient children is usually swearing. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.

4. Really put down your body

Some parents always like to be dignified in front of their children and are used to treating their children with the above attitude. In this regard, I especially suggest that parents really put down their posture and respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a commanding tone and respect their children as adults. Don't always say "no" to children, but give them multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions.

Step 5 reason with your child

In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.

Step 6 let the children experience it

If children always don't listen to adults, parents can also let their children "eat their own fruit" on the premise of ensuring safety and not having adverse consequences. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.

7. negotiate with your children

Don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults, so not only children are suffering, but even adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back. After the parents handle things, they will take their children to the park to dance.

8. Don't teach children when you are angry.

In a state of extreme anger, parents certainly can't discipline their children in a rational way. Therefore, when parents can't calm down anyway, they are advised to leave the scene temporarily or divert their attention to other things, such as calling friends to chat and listening to music. When you calm down, talk to your children.

9. Revise expectations for children.

Sometimes parents are really too eager to achieve success, and often take the standards that they can't do (maybe parents think they can do it, but they have never done it! Ask the children. You know, it is normal for children to be young, active, stubborn and forgetful.

10, treat children sincerely.

Some parents always like to use a tone of accusation or command when communicating with their children, which often makes it difficult for children to accept. The communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can honestly explain their worries or emotions to their children and let them know that his behavior will make you sad, or make you worry and fear.