The differences between the pastoral woman and the brotherly love demon are: different nature, different emphasis and different sources. First, the nature is different 1, rural women: rural women demand more rights and interests under the banner of equality between men and women. 2. Help the younger brother: Help the younger brother to have a younger brother who needs help, regardless of age, but the girl must continue to help after marriage. Second, focus on differences 1, rural women: rural women focus on women better than men. 2. Helping the younger brother: Helping the younger brother focuses on the sense of superiority between men and women in the woman's family. Third, the sources are different. 1. rural women: rural women are the distortion of feminism and the real equality between men and women. 2, help the devil: help the devil is caused by the influence of the woman's family. What do you mean by "rural woman" and "brother helper"? The definition of "rural women" is sometimes called "rural feminism", which refers to those women who use western feminism as a weapon but never mention their obligations. They always try to seek some unique interests through their female identity. In their eyes, society seems to have been "ruled" by many men, and many women live at the bottom of society like "slaves", so their purpose is to "overthrow" men and gain a higher status. When you want to discuss with them rationally, they always use their female identity as a weapon. Just like standing on a "moral high ground", it is easy to defend but difficult to attack, and it will never be wrong. This so-called "pastoral feminism" is essentially different from western feminism. The real feminist appeal is not regarded as a "vulnerable group" by men, but can engage in various occupations like men, such as conscription, fire fighting, peacekeeping and so on. The purpose of "pastoral feminism" is to make men become "vulnerable groups" and live in a "dominant position". In fact, the feminist movement originated in the west has completely become a "gun" in their hands and a weapon pointing to the opposition between men and women. In fact, the real relationship between men and women should be equal. Since ancient times, in the tradition of China people, there has always been the concept of "the man is the master outside and the woman is the master inside", and there is no obvious difference. Then it is unreasonable for any party to want to be a higher status party. In the eyes of "rural women", they only see that many men have decent jobs, high incomes and brand-name clothes, but forget that they have all worked hard, and they all have their own careers and families to take care of. So in fact, it is totally unreasonable for a "rural girl" to become a "shopkeeper": a good life needs struggle, so why should a man provide it? In marriage, men tend to pay more physical and economic efforts. Both social interaction and married life should be carried out on the basis of equality and mutual benefit. The so-called "but not as people who have been poor together know", what kind of height a marriage can reach never depends on one of them, but on the joint efforts of two people. Why does "pastoral feminism" emerge on a large scale in today's society? I think there are probably two reasons, one is influenced by the environment, and the other is the lack of family education. First of all, with the rapid development of society, a typical example is that people's online life has also been greatly improved. Therefore, many people can learn about those families with excellent living conditions from various channels, and they are somewhat envious. For people, the inner subtext will be: how can I get that kind of life? However, we know that getting rich is by no means a one-off event, and it often takes a long time to accumulate. But for ordinary people, they may not understand, so they can only think of "opportunism." The other is influenced by family education. Some of these women come from families with difficult fertility conditions, while others are brought up by their parents, who dote on them in every way. In the former people's mind, the impression that parents have worked hard to raise themselves will always be remembered, and even when they grow up, they will remember to repay their parents. But for them, it is not easy to surpass the poverty life in family of origin, and they can only live a good life by luck. The most common "good luck" is to marry a rich family. But for those women who are spoiled by the concept of "abundance", they have become accustomed to a higher material life. When they can't rely on their parents and have no skills to accompany their parents, all they can do is become "rural women". In fact, people's mentality should be straightened out. Those "rich second generation" whose lives seem to be superior are also due to the efforts of previous generations. So in any case, you must strive for a superior life by yourself, and you must never rely on others, even close couples. What do you mean by "rural girl" and "supporting brother magic"? 3 1. Adoptive brother magic refers to a girl who was born in a patriarchal family with one or more younger brothers and was asked by her parents to treat her younger brothers unconditionally. No matter before or after marriage, I think of my brother wholeheartedly and put my energy and financial resources on him. Even the marital property is unlimited to help my brother. 2. After "helping the younger brother", "China rural women" has been blacklisted by most men. Rural women are women who hold high the banner of feminism. These women demand equal rights everywhere, but they are silent about their obligations. They want nothing, but everything. 3. Such a woman has an unbalanced psychology of enjoying rights and undertaking obligations, and thinks that she was born to enjoy, and the suffering and pain should be borne by men. 4. For many boys, "helping younger brother" and "China rural girl" have become the objects they dare not avoid.