1. Establish clear rules and boundaries: First, clearly define the boundaries of children's behaviors, so that they can understand which behaviors are acceptable and which behaviors are unacceptable. Establish clear rules and punishment measures in the family so that children can understand the consequences of their actions. At the same time, children should also understand the authority of parents and the seriousness of rules, so as to cultivate their self-discipline and sense of responsibility.
2. Give children full attention and love: Although children may be arbitrary or stubborn, it doesn't mean that they don't need love and attention. Parents should give their children enough attention and love to make them feel accepted and understood. When children feel love and care, they will be more likely to accept other people's opinions and suggestions, thus making it easier to change their behavior.
3. Adopt effective communication skills: Effective communication with children is the key to educating children. Parents should use positive communication skills, such as listening, expressing feelings and understanding children's views.
When communicating with children, parents should try to remain calm and rational, and guide children to express their feelings and needs in a positive way. At the same time, parents should also respect their children's opinions and decisions and give guidance and support when appropriate.
The essence of education:
1. The essence of education is to equip the educated with the knowledge, skills, attitudes and values needed to engage in social life through the educational process. Education is not only to transmit knowledge, but also to cultivate students' social life ability and help them grow into all-round people. This ability includes independent thinking ability, innovation ability, teamwork ability, social communication ability and so on.
2. The essence of education requires that we should not only pay attention to imparting knowledge, but also pay attention to the development of students' personality and the cultivation of practical ability. In the process of education, we should respect students' subjectivity, stimulate students' interest and motivation in learning, and cultivate students' autonomous learning and lifelong learning ability. At the same time, we should also pay attention to students' emotional and mental health and help them establish a positive outlook on life and values.
3. The essence of education also requires us to pay attention to the fairness and universality of education. Everyone should have the opportunity to receive a good education, not just a few elites. The goal of education is to enable everyone to find their place in society and give full play to their talents and potentials.
The essence of education also requires us to pay attention to the sustainability of education. Education should meet the needs of social development, constantly update and improve the contents and methods of education, and cultivate talents to adapt to the future society. At the same time, education should also pay attention to environmental protection and sustainable development, popularize the concept of green education, and make contributions to the sustainable development of mankind.