However, there is such a retired grandmother who has cultivated a "child prodigy" only by these three tricks.
The prodigy was first met in The Great Child. His name is Wang Hengyi, and he was only three years old when he appeared on the show.
Although he was only three years old, he could already remember many ancient poems by then. When he was five years old, Wang Hengyi took part in the impossible challenge again. At this time, he has been able to recite more than 500 ancient poems and know more than 3,000 new words. He entered the finals in "Challenge Impossible" and was praised by netizens as "little prodigy".
Everyone was curious about such a clever boy at that time. His parents must be ambitious people, right? As a result, I found that his parents are ordinary people and have been working in Shanghai for a long time. It was his grandparents who always took him with them. Later, I learned that the reason why Wang Hengyi is so powerful has a lot to do with his grandmother.
When talking about how to raise children, his grandmother put forward these three measures:
Wang Hengyi's grandmother didn't force her children to learn anything, but began to cultivate their interests.
Wang Hengyi's grandmother didn't specify what children should learn at first. She bought some books of ancient poems and put them at home, and usually read them to her children intentionally or unintentionally. I didn't expect children to be very interested in reading ancient poems.
At this time, Wang Hengyi's grandmother decided to cultivate her children's interest. Later, she brought three-character classics and hundreds of surnames to teach children to learn step by step from a simple beginning.
How to cultivate children's interest?
Before the child is three years old, parents should not interfere too much with the cultivation of children's interests, and let them get in touch with new things, so that after the child is three years old, it is easy to have a general direction to cultivate children's interests.
Another thing to note is that parents should not play mobile phones and watch TV in front of their children when they are fine, so as not to affect their false "hobbies" of watching TV and playing mobile phones.
Imagine if children learn the same thing every day and practice it repeatedly, will it gradually kill their interest?
Wang Hengyi's grandmother realized that if children recited ancient poems every day, they would inevitably feel bored and bored. So his grandmother began to introduce games into Wang Hengyi's study.
Wang Hengyi's grandmother and children had a competition, that is, they asked each other questions to see who answered the most. This kind of somewhat competitive game has aroused the interest of children in an instant. In order to beat her grandmother, the child began to recite many ancient poems, and his memory was obviously improved.
Then parents can also join the game when they usually guide their children to learn, so that their children can grow up in the game and become more and more excellent.
Learning is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat. Only persistence is king. Wang Hengyi's grandmother will continue to encourage her children when she studies with them. When the children make progress, her grandmother will affirm their progress in time.
It is precisely because of grandma's urging and constant affirmation that Wang Hengyi can persist in studying all the way and become today's "child prodigy".
When encouraging children, parents can adopt the encouragement method of secondary feedback.
It is to tell the truth first, and then tell what the children have done well. The point is to tell the specific place, not simply praise the child for doing a great job.
For example, if a child actively shares his own things with others, parents can first say that the child shares things with others, and then affirm the child's love for sharing and say that he can actively share things with others. It's great to keep children going.
Through secondary feedback, children's excellent moral character can be shaped.
After seeing Grandma Wang Hengyi's educational methods, parents can try to gradually cultivate their children's abilities and help them become better.
Every parent wants their children to be smarter and start earlier! But this is inseparable from the careful education of parents to their children. From Wang Hengyi, we can see how much effort parents put into their children and how much the children can give back.
It also reminds parents that it is very important to attach importance to the enlightenment of Chinese studies. Finally, quietly recommend 2 sets of books to fans.
One set is a classic of children's Chinese studies in China, with a total volume of 10, including Hundred Family Names, Disciples' Rules, The Analects of Confucius, Three-Character Classics, Idiom Stories, Thousand-Character Essays, Augmented Stories, Fable Stories, Tang Poems and Li Weng Dui Yun.
The other set is an idiom picture book with 20 volumes. Through interesting and vivid language and illustrations, tell the story of idioms that have been circulated for thousands of years, help children understand history and culture, and improve their expressive ability and cultural heritage.
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