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1, give children a harmonious family atmosphere.
Children who grow up in a harmonious family can often develop a cheerful and optimistic personality. If the family is often noisy, children are often eccentric, lack of self-confidence and easy to rebel.
2. Communicate with children on an equal footing and be their friends.
Around us, we can often see that some parents are very strong, either bossing their children around, or ignoring them and lacking communication.
Children who grow up in this environment are prone to form a withdrawn character, tend to be extreme and stubborn, and are unwilling to accept other people's opinions.
Therefore, in order to keep abreast of children's psychological activities and learning, we should be equal friends with children and communicate with them frequently.
3. Parents should set an example image that can exert a subtle influence on their children.
Children are very imitative, so parents must set an example in front of their children and let them develop good morals and habits in life and study.
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How to educate children to get good results? I think both teachers and parents should master the knowledge of pedagogy and psychology, and then adopt appropriate teaching or educational methods to achieve remarkable results.
As a teacher or a parent, it is impossible not to know a little about pedagogy and psychology. It's like a blind man riding a blind horse, with no purpose and no direction. Only by mastering the theoretical knowledge of pedagogy and psychology can you educate children in an appropriate way, make them easy to understand and willing to learn, and fully mobilize their enthusiasm for cooperative learning.
I hope to publish more books on pedagogy, psychology and teaching methods. As long as this knowledge is popularized, teachers and parents, especially parents, can educate their children scientifically and get twice the result with half the effort.
Family education should pay attention to how students can be "people", such as the cultivation of three views and behavior habits, family style and family education, and inherit Chinese traditional virtues, which requires parents to play an exemplary role and constantly improve and improve themselves; Create conditions for learning to generate "talents", such as cultivating interest in learning, creating a family reading environment, broadening students' horizons, and especially creating a pleasant learning experience for children.
Educating children is a big project. Children are in the process of growth, and correct education is very important.
First, educating children requires the cooperation of parents and schools. Parents can't completely indulge their children and give them to teachers without asking themselves.
Some parents have no time to educate their children for their careers, which is not good for their children's growth.
Second, parents should set an example, parents should have a correct outlook on life, and the way to deal with problems has a direct impact on children. Children spend most of their time with their parents except at school. Parents' every move is in their eyes and exerts a subtle influence on their children. Parents are of high quality and educated, and children learn manners and education unconsciously. If children want to be excellent, parents should be excellent first.
Second, we should teach our children kindness and integrity. Being a man is the most important thing. Being a kind person and knowing how to be grateful can make children happy in their later years.
Third, teach children self-discipline. A regular life is of great benefit to children's future growth and even to adults. Do what you have to do before you play. In this way, children can prioritize in their study and life, and life will be clear and efficient when they grow up.
Fourth, study. Don't just pursue high scores, focus on cultivating children's understanding ability and problem-solving ability. Let children read more extracurricular books besides books, and take them outside during holidays to broaden their horizons. Read thousands of books, follow Wan Li Road, teach children to be wise and thoughtful people, let them learn to think and deal with the atmosphere, and then they can become successful people when they grow up.
Don't use corporal punishment when children make mistakes. Be reasonable and let the children know the consequences of their mistakes. And let the children remember this mistake in the form of appropriate punishment to prevent similar mistakes from being made again in the future. For example, cancel the plan to take children to the playground and other measures.
Sixth, it is particularly important for children to grow up in a happy atmosphere. Don't put too much pressure on children, give full play to their nature. Children's mental health is very important.
As parents, how to educate their children well is a complicated and changeable project.
First of all, we must establish a correct concept of parenting. The country needs good citizens with both ability and political integrity and enterprising spirit. Of course, it depends on each family to cultivate excellent children with both ability and political integrity. Therefore, the old students feel that in the cultivation of children, adults are the foundation and success is the goal.
Secondly. Cultivate children into adults.
Physical health is the foundation, habit formation is the way, and sound personality is the goal. It is something that parents can and must do to eat and wear warm clothes and treat diseases. But habit cultivation has not been paid enough attention by most families. Sowing behavior, harvesting habits; Sowing habits, harvesting character; Sow character and reap fate.
Cultivate children to learn one or two physical exercise skills from an early age, and lay a solid foundation for future work and study.
Lead by example, cultivate the moral quality of respecting the old and loving the young and being kind to others from an early age, and help children spend their lives safely.
Change care and arrangement into letting go of training, do your own things, ask others if you can't, ask for help if you can't, and grow up by yourself, so the elderly and their families will have no chance.
Here we go again. Cultivate children to be useful people.
What is matter? Commanding the marshals of the three armed forces and cooking three meals a day are all materials. Ideas need to be updated.
Children and adolescents mainly focus on growth and learning. In learning, stimulate interest and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Working closely with teachers to help children develop good study habits and never tire of learning is the focus of primary schools. Gradually learn the learning methods that suit you, such as "three before three", preview first and then listen; Review first, then
Do homework; Think independently before consulting others. Study hard and make progress in all subjects as much as possible, which is the main task of junior high school.
Finally, as parents, we should learn to squat down and make friends with our children. Encourage more and blame less. Communicate more. When a child is young, parents should not be away, and children should not be left behind unless absolutely necessary. Imagine that both parents go out to work, their income increases, and their children are delayed. Is it worth it? In the long run, it is the best policy to take the children or leave a person with them. Children's domestic violence, intergenerational education and left-behind children are the main reasons for children's lack of personality.
First of all, parents should set an example and set a positive image for their children. Before children can do it, they must do it first, otherwise it will be unconvincing. There is no end to learning, and parents should also learn, so that they can be convinced when educating their children. If they have little knowledge, how can you persuade them to listen to you? Pay attention to your words and deeds at ordinary times, and don't export foul language. You can't even hit people, whether it's children or couples. The child made a mistake, so why ask more questions? Don't be impulsive, and don't go to school willy-nilly. Be serious about children, but don't be irreconcilable. When it's time to be gentle, be gentle. Don't set up enemies for yourself, set up opposites. Be careful in your life and study. Let children feel the care of their parents and the warmth of their families.
I read a picture book today. The name of this story is Ann's Seed. There is an old temple with an old abbot and three young monks. The names of the three young monks are Ben, Jing and An. By chance, the old host got three seeds of Millennium water lily and gave them to three young monks respectively. After the first young monk got the seeds of the Millennium water lily in the middle of winter, he couldn't wait to plant them in a field in the temple. Ben came to see these seeds for three days in a row, and these seeds realized Ben's ardent hope. In the dead of winter, he tried to grow with his own energy, but it was too cold around, and finally the seeds ran out of energy and failed to grow. The second little monk quietly got the seed, and he began to think, what container should I use to hold the seed? When shall I fertilize and water it? Jing looked for many containers, and finally he found a golden jar. Then he also looked up a lot of information about seed germination and fertilization. Finally, he planted the seeds in a golden pot. He was afraid that the wind would blow away the young plants and made a gorgeous cover for them. As a result, the seedlings could not breathe for a long time and finally died of suffocation. The third little monk quietly got the seed. He hid it in a cloth bag. He is not as excited as the first and second little monks. Eat when you should, and chant when you should. There is a temple fair in the town not far from the temple, and he also visited it. When spring blossoms, I quietly found the seeds in the bag and planted them in the pond. Under the light breeze and warm sunshine, the seeds slowly took root and sprouted, the buds kept growing, and finally a beautiful lotus flower was born.
The three little monks are actually three different parents. For children, as parents, how can we educate children well?
First, don't worry too much. Now the social rhythm is relatively fast, and parents also attach great importance to their children's education. A friend, a four-year-old child, signed up for seven or eight classes. I go to kindergarten from Monday to Friday and attend remedial classes on Saturday and Sunday. On May 1 National Day, everyone had a holiday and the children were still making up lessons. Once a child got sick during school and went to a big hospital to see a doctor. The doctor said that the child was too tired and made up too many lessons.
Second, give children a chance to grow up. As parents, we take care of our children's eating, drinking and sleeping. All we want is for our children to learn well. In fact, I don't know if the child will be a "giant baby" when he grows up. My parents did all the simple things. How can children grow up?
Third, conform to the law of development of things. Just like the third monk An. In spring, thousands of lotus seeds should be planted in ponds, so that the seeds can germinate and bloom. If you are too anxious, you can only encourage young seedlings.
I like an article very much, which is called taking snails for a walk. Sometimes I think that the child may be the snail, the snail sent by God. In the process of children's growth, perhaps snails have been accompanying us to see the scenery on the road.
Thank you for your invitation. To educate children correctly, parents should first set an example. Parents are the children's first teachers and the teachers who have served for the longest time. "Behind every problem student, there is a problem family", "What kind of parents have what kind of children" and "Parents' thoughts and behaviors determine children's thoughts and behaviors". This shows the importance of parents' role models, and the correct education of children cannot be separated from parents' role models.
Secondly, educate children correctly and be sure to accompany them. Accompanying children to grow up is the best education for parents. There is a classic mother-daughter conversation circulating on the Internet. A young mother drove her daughter to an aristocratic school in a famous car. The mother said to the child, "Mom will send you to a better school in the future to earn more money and have no time to accompany you." Do you hate her? My daughter said she didn't hate it, and then told her mother that when I grow up, I will make a lot of money and send you to the best nursing home. " This conversation between mother and daughter will definitely arouse our deep reflection. The healthy growth of children needs material support, but also the companionship of parents in the process of growth.
Companionship is a kind of holistic education, and it is the education that people influence people. In the process of accompanying children to grow up, parents will become veritable educators because they accompany their children to grow up, and children will be healthier, happier and happier because of their inseparable companionship.
In short, children's correct education is inseparable from their parents, who need not only material and economic satisfaction, but also their selfless companionship and their role models. In the process of accompanying children, parents' role as role models and their interaction with children are deepening, which is an ideal education method that exerts a subtle influence on children's growth and future.
First of all, parents should have pure form and psychology, high ideological quality, certain literacy and trust, civilized morality and quality, be strict with the law in everything, set an example in children's minds, let children learn to be human, and encourage children to be confident, self-reliant and self-reliant. The ancients said that what seeds to plant, what seedlings to plant and what fruits to bear are inviolable laws. When children grow up, they have a perfect family, harmonious and high-quality parents, because parents are the children's enlighteners and first mentors, and their words and deeds affect their hearts all the time. For this reason, education should not only rely on teachers, but should be the result of the close combination of family education, school education and social education, which can be completed simultaneously, and neither of them can be neglected. Educating a child well is not an easy task. Parents should make inestimable efforts to do everything well in their children's lives. Even if there is a little mistake, they should correct it in time and not let it drift. Small seedlings should be straight at any time when they are bent, otherwise education will become empty talk.