In our life, we will inevitably meet some people with low emotional intelligence. They often speak as they please, don't care about other people's feelings, are relatively susceptible to emotional and psychological influences, and often vent their unhappiness on others. In fact, low emotional intelligence is not a big problem. Some people with mild emotional intelligence can get along well. After all, no one is perfect. However, we can't avoid meeting all kinds of strange people with low emotional intelligence. Some people can't control their emotions. Their behavior can be frustrating, stupid and even maddening.

So, how to deal with people with low emotional intelligence? How to get along with people with low emotional intelligence? If this person is your close friend, family member or collaborator, you need to take time, take time and be honest with them. In addition, try not to have too much contact with these people at ordinary times, keep a certain distance from them, and just smile when appropriate. Some people with low emotional intelligence have low awareness of the surrounding environment and cannot easily understand the voice-over in your speech. This requires that when we speak, we should try not to beat around the bush and get to the point directly. In this way, sometimes you can save a lot of trouble.

There is no way to avoid communicating with them. Speak clearly to avoid being misunderstood by the other party and causing more trouble. When he is emotionally unstable, try to keep a distance from him. Try to avoid talking to him about things that will affect his mood and emotions, lest he say something embarrassing, which requires us to learn to change the subject appropriately. People with low emotional intelligence don't know how to treat others and are easily influenced by negative emotions. They often encounter unpleasant things, and the next second they immediately start to change their faces. They speak casually and often blurt out, which will lead to some embarrassing scenes and bring a lot of trouble to people around them.

Of course, we should also learn to see some advantages from them and enlarge some of their advantages, because not everyone is perfect. Low EQ is not terrible, what is terrible is low EQ and low IQ. Some people with low emotional intelligence have poor understanding ability. Sometimes they don't quite understand your good, don't change easily, and sometimes even misunderstand your good. Don't try to reason with idiots. Don't directly conflict with them, waste time and get yourself into trouble. People with low emotional intelligence sometimes say stupid excuses and lies. Don't talk at this time, just listen to him quietly and keep smiling.