For the first time, I began to worry about Jimmy's study. For the first time, as a parent, I received a phone call from my teacher saying that I wanted to talk about my children. My heart suddenly became uneasy. I didn't wait to talk to the teacher. I came home from work last night and Jimmy was at the dinner table. He talked about their Jelica class and said that he was criticized again because he couldn't do those problems. The teacher hit him on the head with his finger, which was very painful. He cried at that time. Every time I attend Jelica's class, I am beaten by the teacher. What distresses me is that when he spoke, his eyes were red, tears swirled in his eyes, and his mouth was flat and wronged. Jimmy said he didn't want to take Jelica's class any more and asked me to drop him out of this interest class. Jelica course in kindergarten belongs to brain development course. I guess he must have met something about mathematics, so he couldn't do it, so he was criticized. In fact, I knew about Jimmy's beating in kindergarten before, but from the perspective of being a teacher, I hope the teacher can be stricter, and it is not difficult to beat him. My children know very well that Jimmy is one of the most naughty children in the class, and he has a weak sense of rules, so it is common to be trained. His three teachers have always been good to him, except the head teacher who is strict, the other two teachers are good to him. When I get angry, I can't help shouting at him, even hitting him, not to mention a teacher who is not related to him. Teachers are human beings, and we can't expect them to become gods when they lose patience. Mathematics has always been Jimmy's weakness, or at his age, it should be numbers. From a very young age, he was extremely tired of numbers. As long as numbers appeared, he was confused. We didn't teach him anything about this, so there was no existence that killed his interest in mathematics from the beginning. However, since he was exposed to numbers in kindergarten, he has been learning more slowly than other children. Although there are reasons for his age, the most important thing is that he is unwilling to learn, and his mind is completely out of it. Perhaps, the teaching method of kindergarten mathematics made him afraid of strange mathematics from the beginning. Because I hate math and Jelica class, and because Jelica class can't do problems, I have to be beaten by teachers, which deepens my fear of this class and leads to my weariness of learning. And I, because of my love for him and because of my teacher, thought of not taking this course for the first time. A teacher's teaching method determines children's interest in this course to some extent. I don't want to be killed forever because of the teacher's interest in learning mathematics before Jimmy enters primary school. At the same time, I am worried that it will affect Jimmy's perseverance. He may think that as long as he doesn't like the course, he can give up at will. Obviously, this kind of education is not feasible in China. In the exam-oriented education environment, children have no right to choose courses independently. Before going to bed, Jimmy was worried about Jessica's class and couldn't sleep. He repeatedly told me that I must tell the teacher when I get to school tomorrow that I have refunded my money. I talked to Jimmy, and I told him, "This time, my mother can discuss with the teacher and drop out of Yelika and transfer to the eloquence class. He didn't stop this course because he hated Jelica. Mainly because this course belongs to an interest class that can be chosen at will, we can choose to suspend classes. If you go to primary school in the future, it is impossible not to attend those courses, such as mathematics. Even if you can't, even if you hate the math teacher, there's nothing you can do. You must study, you have no choice. Because you grew up in such an environment, you have to learn to adapt. " Although I feel sorry for him and have some dissatisfaction with the teacher's punishment, I still restrain my emotions and guide him well when facing the child. I continued to ask him, "if you do something wrong, my mother will scold you or even hit you when she is angry, not to mention the teacher." Did the teacher hit you when you were obedient and kept out of trouble? Did the teacher hit other naughty children? Ever hit a kid who wasn't in trouble? It means that the teacher doesn't hate you. Just you, as long as you obey the classroom order, don't make trouble, and listen to the teacher carefully, how can the teacher hit you? " Jimmy was noncommittal. In fact, last night, after listening to Jimmy's beating in class, he couldn't help but want to call the teacher, even though we were talking about his study after school this afternoon. On the phone, my tone may not be particularly good at first, but I never had the courage to directly explain that Jimmy was tired of studying because of being beaten. What the teacher means is that parents can't give up their children's math just because they don't want to learn it. Sounds reasonable, but isn't interest more important than learning math? I didn't give up. I have made up my mind. Anyway, this interest class is determined not to enroll students. As for mathematics, I don't want Jimmy to receive primary education in advance, but since it has gradually shown weakness, I must find ways to improve his interest. I thought that I would pick up a few meters after school this afternoon and have a good chat with the teacher. I don't want Jimmy to have a psychological disorder. In the process of reprimanding and beating, self-esteem is frustrated, self-confidence is seriously insufficient, and even self-abandonment. I think I just can't learn, and I can't learn well. The urgent task is not how to cram any math, but how to protect his self-esteem and self-confidence. "If educators intentionally or unintentionally hurt children's self-esteem and self-confidence, then children's hearts will be hit and destroyed, and they will lose the motivation and spiritual support for good development. In any case, it is foolish to hurt or vilify children's self-esteem and self-confidence. " The child's heart is fragile. I hope more parents and educators will always remember: please don't let our unintentional actions hurt children's young hearts.