When dating, knowing some basic information about the other person can help you get to know each other better and judge whether there is any possibility of further communication. Ah Hu summed up some information that needs to be mastered, some of which can be understood by introducers and some of which need to be obtained through mutual communication. But either way, you should disclose the same amount of information to each other. Blind date means getting to know each other. If you just ask each other and keep silent about yourself, it will make people feel insincere!

Personal background: Understand the other party's name, age, place of origin and other basic background information. If you are from a city, this is very easy to talk about. Maybe you will find that you crossed paths a long time ago!

Education and occupation: ask each other about their education and occupation, and learn about their professional fields and work experience. Ah Fu met a person who was vague about his job, and later found out that he didn't have a job, so he could talk about his education and job in detail, and only after talking more would he know whether what the other person said was true.

Family status: Ask about each other's family status, such as parents' work and the relationship between family members. The importance of family status in marriage need not be emphasized, right? The family background often mentioned now is actually a reflection of the family situation. People with happy and harmonious families will have a more sound personality.

Hobbies: Knowing each other's hobbies helps to judge whether there are common topics and hobbies. Ask each other about their favorite activities, daily habits, and whether they have special dietary needs. Will help them understand their lifestyle and get along with each other. These questions are the simplest and the most harmless. If you are afraid of silence, you can ask these questions.

Values and goals: discuss each other's values and life goals, including their views on family, career and future planning. Discuss your views on marriage and understand each other's expectations and attitudes towards partnership and family life. It is difficult to fundamentally change values. For example, if one side wants children and the other side insists on not having them, then there is no need to waste time with each other in this irreconcilable conflict. Just say it as soon as possible.

This information can help you get to know each other initially and further decide whether to continue to develop the relationship. At the same time, we should remember to maintain mutual respect and understanding in the process of blind date, and give each other enough time and space to get to know each other.