I felt very happy after listening to the lecture yesterday, and I was full of hope for my children's upcoming junior high school life. I am proud that Jiangnan Experimental School cares so much about their physical and mental health. Adolescence is just a problem for children, not problem children. Starting from our belief, we give our parents the belief that every child is upward and good. As parents, it is particularly important to manage your emotions. In the face of adolescent children with high self-esteem, high IQ, high vulnerability and high sensitivity, when adolescence encounters menopause, I can only learn from my child and participate in her growth. After all, I am the father who goes to work without a license.

Parent-child relationship is the most important link in the face of adolescent children. I especially agree. How can I guide my children if they don't want to communicate with me? Home is a place of love, not a place of reason. In fact, children are under pressure to face classmates, teachers and academic performance at school. If some bad emotions of children are not vented at home, where can they be released? It is particularly important to build a harmonious family with long-term energy, which requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife. Pay 100 times the effort, just for the growth of children 1 times, not even.

Through xu teacher's sharing yesterday, I will treat my adolescent daughter like a "leader" and give her enough respect and recognition. When you see some of her bad behaviors, you should learn to shut up and give yourself an idea silently. When your mood is stable, you should try to communicate, listen carefully to what your child says, distinguish what is truth and what is feeling, and objectively state the facts before telling your feelings, instead of trying to help your child make a decision. I believe that your child can handle his own affairs well.

Finally, I look forward to the opportunity to participate in the parent drama experience introduced by xu teacher. It is easy to acquire knowledge now, but in practical application, we will always be framed by existing knowledge and influenced by the education of our own family. We can't help but think of a sentence, "Do you think what you think is what you think? Actually not! " There is a kind of cold that my mother thinks I am cold. I think only through experience can we really wake up from the heart and correct our behavior. Don't look back until you reach the south wall. How do I know that's my south wall? Experience is to let us grow up in a safe and designed environment.

Finally, I sincerely thank Jiangnan Experimental School, xu teacher and my daughter's sixth-grade teachers. It's good to have you.