What if the child scolds his mother? 1. First of all, they should set an example. When children know things, they always look at what their parents do and even imitate their parents' behavior. Some children taught by parents who like to beat and scold their children will also have this habit, thinking that swearing is an outlet of feelings. Therefore, parents should pay attention to language and attitude when educating their children.
Children should stop swearing immediately. If a child swears, he should be stopped immediately and educated seriously. Don't beat and scold the child when he is dragged here. Even intimidating children, which not only does not help children's practices, but may aggravate children's rebellious psychology. After all, the child has grown up.
3. Let children learn to control their emotions. Let children learn to control their emotions when they are fine, and don't be impatient. Parents should be patient with their children at ordinary times, otherwise the children may learn some bad habits of their parents, resulting in bad habits of beating and scolding their parents.
How do parents educate their children correctly? 1. Set an example
Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children.
Second, environmental edification.
Children should have a good small environment for learning, not for luxury, but for atmosphere. When studying, students should avoid unnecessary family chats and friends gatherings. And try to tolerate their shortcomings. Look at children with a magnifying glass, knowing that there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children.
Third, criticism and punishment.
Criticism and punishment are the negation of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is an educational means for serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we should first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific situation and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the wrong reality. Criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. When criticizing, don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive. Punishment is mainly deprivation of certain rights, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.