Responsibility is the premise of doing a good job, and cultivating children's sense of responsibility depends on daily habits. Parents should let their children do what they can when they are young, pack toys when they are young, and help wash dishes when they are old. Let him be responsible for sweeping the floor or washing dishes, which is his responsibility. If he works well, he should be encouraged or rewarded. If he doesn't do it well, his parents should not be polite and ask him to do it again until he does it well.
Parents should let their children face up to the disadvantages of carelessness, let them experience the benefits of carefulness in life, and let them bear the consequences of carelessness when necessary. Parents can also let their children do more "fine work", such as writing brush characters and sewing buttons, which can exercise their carefulness. In short, let him take responsibility for his own affairs. In this way, children's sense of responsibility can be gradually cultivated, and children will not be perfunctory when they encounter things.
Poor self-care ability and lack of sense of responsibility lead to carelessness of children. Carelessness in learning is a manifestation of children's bad living habits. It is suggested that parents should abandon the improper educational methods such as over-protection and arrangement in the past, and start from the little things around them to cultivate the order of children's lives and improve their self-care ability; Train children to do more fine work and cultivate their sense of responsibility and patience.
2. Cultivate children's orderly living habits.
Children's "carelessness" is often manifested in many aspects of life. If children live in a chaotic family, they will develop careless, sloppy and disorderly living habits. Therefore, parents are advised to create an orderly living environment for their children at home and cultivate their orderly living habits. Gradually, children will be more careful in their studies.
When studying, it is necessary to create a quiet environment for children, and parents should avoid doing something that interferes with their attention when studying. Parents should guide their children to develop orderly living habits.
In life, let children develop the good habit of keeping things by themselves, not only school supplies, but also clothes and shoes should be put in their own cabinets and kept by themselves.
In learning, it is necessary to cultivate children's good habits such as completing homework on the same day, checking after finishing homework, previewing before class and reviewing after class.
3. Keep children healthy and give them careful psychological hints.
If a child makes a little mistake, parents simply attribute it to carelessness, lack of study, or even making a mountain out of a molehill and criticizing. If parents repeatedly emphasize that children are careless, children will really feel careless.
On the contrary, if parents can observe and praise the child's carefulness in time, the child will have a psychological hint that he is very careful.
At the same time, let children see the benefits of carefulness, and let them have the subjective initiative to overcome carelessness, so that the problem can be fundamentally solved.
Let the children make their own measures to punish carelessness.
If the child's carelessness affects his homework or exam results, then you can give him a small punishment. For example: cancel the original plan to go out, or watch less TV for a while. ...
5. Cultivate children to have a regular life.
Ask children to do things regularly, starting with life and then learning. Children can be asked to start by tidying up their rooms.
6. Let children do more "fine work"
Children can practice writing brush strokes, tying shoelaces, peeling edamame, etc. , to improve their level of detail.
The antonym of "carefulness" is carelessness and carelessness, which is very common among children. When they were young, they didn't think much. The bigger you get, the more headaches you get, which is not conducive to learning and success. Most of the adult's carelessness is developed from childhood, which shows that it is very important to develop as a child.
"Careful" is a habit, which is related to personality, but it is not innate. All habits are acquired.
It is necessary to cultivate the habit of "concentration", be serious and focused, be able to concentrate quickly, and be able to control yourself to calm down and be half-hearted and not anticlimactic.
It is necessary to cultivate the habit of "checking" and get used to it when you are finished. How about checking after work? I'm finished packing. Check to see if there is anything missing. After finishing your homework, check whether there are any mistakes ... If you form the habit of "checking", you will benefit for life.
It is necessary to form the habit of "order" and "organization", and do things in an orderly way, methodically, not impetuous, and not throwing things away.
Habits are not formed overnight, but the result of perseverance. Children cannot form their own habits, but the role of environment and education. Adults should set an example and infect children with their care. If the whole environment is careful, children will naturally be careful.