parenthood
Children's behavior is opposed by their parents, who have their parents' reasons and children's reasons. Children are in a weak position, of course, they must be forced to obey. However, the child's psychology is no longer hurt at the beginning, and his feelings with his parents have to be affected. This contradiction is the contradiction between family and friendship. In the final analysis, it is still a "generation gap" problem.
friendship
The antelope woodcarving shows two inner worlds: "I" cherish friendship and give the antelope woodcarving to Wan Fang; What parents cherish in their hearts is antelope woodcarving, and what they educate is "I". Forced "I" to get the antelope carving back, so there was a conflict.
Family education
Children are brought up by their parents. Parents are dominant, and parents are responsible for their children's shortcomings. It is better to blame yourself for not making it clear in advance than to blame the children for making their own decisions. The author's tendency is mainly to educate children. If we look at it from the perspective of "I", we can learn from it. After all, it is necessary to discuss with adults what to do when I was a child.
connect
If you learn to communicate in life, let your parents and others understand you, and try your best to understand them, you can try your best to avoid conflicts in the text. By extension, discussing things more can avoid many contradictions.