Do you resent the backward education methods for the elderly and the ways to help you take care of your children?
Of course, I won't mind the old man taking care of my children, but if I have certain financial ability, I will hire a nanny. If I don't have the financial ability, if the old man is willing to help me with my children, then I'll be happy to give it to her. Although the old man's education method is relatively backward, we can instill some new ideas into him and let him accept new knowledge. Some old people are very reasonable, but not all old people are square. Of course, the elderly are also very experienced in taking care of children. After all, they have long wanted to have children and raised them in such a healthy way. Sometimes we should listen to the opinions of the old people. As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer. Old people's words are still very useful, but when educating children, you can ask special teachers for them or educate them yourself. Old people sometimes understand their parents' feelings, and certainly don't deliberately teach them bad children. The old man now is completely different from the old man before. In the past, old people may be careless and sometimes criticize their daughter-in-law. Now the elderly are highly educated, and in any case, they are all people who have read books. Maybe he knows that he is behind the times, but she is willing to learn new things. While the children are studying, the old people are also studying. It is also a kind of happiness for children and the elderly to make progress and grow together. Sometimes old people are really helpful to a family. When you are busy at work, the old man will help you pick up the children. When you don't have time to eat, the old man will cook a meal and send it to you. Don't underestimate the strength of an old man. He was also an excellent man when he was young.