Rich parents can spend money to send their babies to the best schools and interest classes, but what should parents with ordinary conditions do? After all, the money in the pocket is not so abundant, and every penny spent on children's education should be spent on the cutting edge!
Parents' conditions are average. If you want to spend no money on children's education, you need to watch out for the following pits, or you will get nothing.
1, don't think that children have learned something by spending money on books.
A colleague has a five-year-old child. She bought her online English class and logical thinking class. After buying it, her colleagues began to be complacent and felt that she still attached great importance to education and was a qualified parent. However, one year's online English class gave up after less than ten classes, but even so, my colleagues still have a great sense of accomplishment. After all, she thinks she spent money.
In the education of children, many parents think that they have learned something by buying books or courses for their children. But if the book is bought back, can the child learn anything without reading a page or attending a class?
Parents spend money on books and courses for their children's education, so they must make sure that their children really gain something from it, so that the money can be spent well.
2. Beware of spending money only on children's grades and specialties, not on spiritual and character growth.
Many parents put their children's academic performance first, and are willing to spend a lot of money to give their children a good school and enter a high-quality long class, but they can't spare time to accompany their children. The couple's feelings are not harmonious, and the home is often smoky. For example, Wu, a suspect in Peking University's mother-killing case, used to be a scholar, who was called high flyers by teachers and classmates. His study is not excellent, but if the characters at the bottom are not well shaped, wouldn't it be a draw water with a sieve?
Achievement is very important, but it doesn't mean everything. Results can only represent the academic performance at that time. Can not fully reflect the child's growth state, exploration ability, hands-on ability, thinking ability and so on. , also can't reflect the child's personality and other specialties.
I have to say that some children really have no talent for learning, so are these children really worthless in the future? Not necessarily. For these children, their advantages may be sports, speaking ability, artistic creativity and so on.
Therefore, parents should be more aware that it is the key to pay attention to the development of children's comprehensive ability, help children find their own development path and make their future more likely.