1, children's childhood, high-quality companionship is very important. But the influence of parents on their children is actually lifelong. In the company, we show our children how to control their appetite, resist consumerism, and pursue the spiritual world without interruption. In middle age, we bear the burden of perseverance and struggle, and in old age, we are calm and stable. The power of companionship will slow down the release of children from life. Absent-minded, anxious and drifting parents are the embarrassing fate of children.

2. In parent-child interaction, the feelings of parents and children are basically similar. When you criticize your child for not being sensible, the child is also complaining about your incomprehension; When you blame your child for driving you crazy, you basically drive your child crazy; You are changing the parent-child relationship. From the beginning of acceptance, first adjust your mood and attitude and treat your child as the person you want him to be. You will find that you are right and so are your children!

A five-year-old German boy always likes to wear skirts. Instead of scolding him, his father chose to put on a skirt and go shopping with him. His father said, "I don't have much higher education. I just want my children to know that sometimes it is not necessary to live up to public expectations. I want him to know that dad will always be with him. " It is said that one of their intolerant neighbors was dumbfounded and bumped into a lamppost. What a brave father! Many adults don't even allow their children to wear their own clothes to the streets for fear of losing face. Then, thinking of a sentence I saw many years ago: the "face" and "lining" of parenting, it is very easy for us to lose the core because we care about face. Self-check.

4. It is not the strong wind that makes passers-by take off their coats, but the warm sunshine; What makes pebbles perfect is not the violent blow of a hammer, but the long-term erosion of water. Real family education is based on words and deeds. Parents influence and edify their children by regulating their own behavior and using the power of example and environment, instead of parents indulging their own desires and emotions and disciplining and shaping their children through rude reprimands and beatings.