In the stage of self-awareness, children think they are as comprehensive as adults and often demand "fairness" like adults. Here are three reasons why children talk back and how to deal with them.

Think you are not wrong.

Children think that they are not wrong, are not convinced by the criticism of adults, and feel wronged or wronged. Coping methods: Adults should listen to children's thoughts patiently, let children express their feelings, understand their feelings, and then guide and educate them.

I think both sides are at fault.

Children think that both sides are at fault, and adults are unfair. Coping methods: Adults should lead by example, make fair decisions, let children see the fairness and justice of adults, and guide children to learn to empathize and understand the difficulties of adults.

I think adults are completely unreasonable.

The child thinks that the adult is completely unreasonable and is taking it out on him. Coping methods: Adults should deal with it calmly and not be influenced by children's emotions. At the same time, we should also guide children to learn emotional management, so that children can learn to control their emotions and express their ideas rationally.