1. Experience of children's family education
The child is curious. He is interested in anything new. When a child asks questions, parents should try to explain them in detail, discuss things around him and teach him the names and functions of various things. Children have the most problems. Parents should carefully understand the rebellious questions raised by their children and try to answer what they really ask. Don't perfunctory your child, but don't rush to instill too much knowledge into your child that he can't understand yet. At the same time, because most children are only children, it is inevitable that children will have bad habits such as being competitive and not United in family education, so kindergarten education here is very important. Kindergarten is a place where children grow and learn. Kindergartens should provide healthy and rich living and activity environment for children, so that they can acquire knowledge that is easy to develop physically and mentally in their happy childhood and improve their self-care ability. According to the children's situation, carry out safety education, civilized manners education, unity and friendship education, so that children can form good behavior habits. Each child's own conditions are different, so it is necessary to reflect both commonness and differences in training. At the same time, we should attach importance to the development of children's creativity and imagination and fully mobilize their enthusiasm. It is easy for children to have a strong interest in a good environment. Driven by interest, children can fully mobilize their creative game environment, guide them to participate in the design of game environment, provide them with rich game environment and equal game opportunities, let them freely choose games according to their own wishes, play games in their own way, and share the happiness brought by games with their partners. Let children learn in games and accumulate life experience. Children spend most of their time in kindergartens, and most of their life experiences will be gained in kindergartens. In order to let children study and live better through games, they learn the good behavior habits of collective cooperation in games, and they also learn to think independently and are not afraid of difficulties.
2. Children's family education experience
In the process of children's growth, I think it is most important to educate children well. First of all, from our parents, parents' behavior is a model for children to learn, so in daily life, we should do better and better in all aspects. Because children will learn from us unconsciously. It is necessary to guide children to deal with setbacks and failures in life with a good attitude and optimistic spirit, and educate children to learn to be strong in difficulties. Children are in a vague state in their beginner's knowledge, so our parents must consolidate and understand their learning. Paradoxically, when children are studying, we try our best to spend time with them, discuss problems with them, study together and be their study partners. Encourage and appreciate children more, so that children will have more confidence in learning.
Willing to be a child's listener. Whenever the child tells you a bunch of messy words, no matter how busy we are, we should calm down and listen to the child's voice, so that the child will think that we respect her very much. Only through children's spiritual communication can we really understand children.
Give the child a hug and a smile every day, and let the child live in the cradle of love. Willing to be friends with children and share the pain with them, so that there will be no gap between children and us. It is our wish to win the hearts of children.
In the future, we will learn while doing and explore in practice, so that children can grow up healthily and happily and become successors in the new century.
3. Children's family education experience
Spend more time with your children and talk to them. Keep abreast of the latest developments of children. First of all, it is very important to have feelings for children, so that children can truly feel their position in their parents' hearts and know that we care about her at any time and anywhere. People's hearts are all meat. Over time, children will naturally feel that they are not studying hard, which is really bad. Let children feel that they have not studied hard and have a mentality of being sorry for their parents. Give the child an account book. The account book I am talking about is a book that records good words, famous sayings and excellent works for children. As we all know, a seed, if held in your hand, is just a seed without sufficient sunshine and growing environment, because its space is limited. So are children. Because knowledge has not expired, it is good for adults and children to extract some excellent things from some books and look back. Because studying with children is a very happy thing.
Encourage children's courage, ask her to raise her hand bravely to answer questions in class, and exercise children's self-confidence. At first, most children didn't have the courage to answer the teacher's questions in class because they were afraid that they would be criticized by the teacher and laughed at by their classmates if they answered incorrectly. At this time, we should guide the children correctly and build up self-confidence: it doesn't matter if the answer is wrong, because we haven't learned it well yet. If all the answers are right, we will become teachers.
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4. Children's family education experience
Our daughter is four years old. She is cheerful, lively and obedient. In the process of her growth, we fully respect her, we will discuss some things with her, and we will tell her why we are not allowed to do things. I don't promise my children easily, but I will do what I promise my children. If I can't do it for special reasons, I will apologize to her in advance and explain the reasons to her. We also consciously pay attention to cultivate her self-confidence, interpersonal skills, learn to help each other, cooperate and share, and guide her to have compassion for the weak. When she can't or can't do something well, she is always upset and frustrated. At this time, we will encourage her with words, give her some tips or help, and finish something with her. When she finishes, we will say to her, "You are great!" If something is really beyond her age, we will say to her, "Baby, you are too young now. When you are older, you will be able to do it well. " When mom and dad were your age, they really didn't do as well as you did. "In this way, her self-confidence gradually established. An important feature of the only child is the lack of playmates, so we often encourage her to take the initiative to get to know other children and share her beloved toys with friends. Guide her to learn to take care of others when playing with her peers. For example, when a child comes home as a guest, he says to his daughter, "You are a young master now. The children come to our house to play, so you should take good care of them so that they will like to make friends with you. "If she does well, praise her in time, so that when the child comes home next time, her daughter can already be a good little master.
In family education, there is another headache for us: "step-relatives". When our daughter was one or two years old, our grandparents' unprincipled love made us very helpless. Some rules you set for children are often useless to elders, but for the sake of family harmony, we will not criticize her in front of the elderly. After a long time, there will be differences between children with the elderly and parents alone. When there are old people, they are more willful, and when they are with their parents, they are much more obedient. This situation has been a headache for us for some time. The solution is that parents should be more reasonable to their children when the old man is away, and it will be much better if they are not with the old man after school. When you are with the elderly, it is very important for parents to respect and honor the elderly. This is something that children can imitate and get used to. When my daughter was three years old, she used to give it to her grandparents and parents, and then eat it herself. We think this is a good result of long-term habit formation.
Children are the object of care at home. Often look down on others. We deliberately remind her in our daily life. Let her do some small things, such as helping my mother fold clothes. She is willing to do it, and we will say to her after she finishes, "Thank you for your help. I'm so happy. Fortunately, you helped me, otherwise I would have to do it for a long time. You are great! " When family members are not feeling well, we will ask her to greet them and help them take medicine. Form her good habit of caring and helping others. As a result, when she visited a sick old man last year, she would take the initiative to tuck the patient in and greet him with concern. Get everyone's praise, we believe that this kind of praise will better promote her good habit of caring for others.
5. Experience of children's family education
The cultivation of children's good living habits is a very important aspect of children's growth. We have always paid attention to the cultivation of children's good living habits. Let her do what she can, and then give full praise to her achievements. Give the child a sense of accomplishment and she will do it. For example, after she finishes playing, let her put away her toys. Let her wash her face, brush her teeth, go to the toilet by herself and so on. Set a time for her to watch TV and computer. "Look at the computer for ten minutes, and then help me turn off the computer, so that we can have a good sleep. Can I see Ru Ru? " At first, the children must be a little unhappy. But what has been said must be strictly implemented. Even if she has some emotions, we deliberately ignore them and use other things to divert her attention. After several times, at the appointed time, she will turn off the computer by herself. People are group animals, and children will eventually go to society. Understanding and learning about social norms is also a part of behavior habits. We influence her from small things. Let her help dad watch the traffic lights and "supervise" dad not to run the red lights. She likes this kind of work. You can also form a good habit of obeying traffic rules in this kind of work. Let her know that she sympathizes with and helps the disadvantaged groups in society, give her money and put it in a bowl in front of beggars, and tell her that she has helped them. We also agreed with her not to litter on the road, and everyone supervised each other. In this game-like process, children slowly learn to abide by basic social ethics.