Education means that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another.

1. The main factor that affects children's grades is not school, but family.

2. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children are likely to become "problem children" at school.

For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be.

Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the more conducive it is to children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.

Abundance is another higher education resource. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.

6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.

7. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.

8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself."

9. If parents quickly pick up their children when they cry, then children will take advantage of this feature of their parents and constantly pester their parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.

10. The relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.

Education is to cultivate people's mental outlook. The mission of parents and teachers is to make children gradually take responsibility for their mental outlook, get rid of all kinds of filth that may be polluted, cultivate spiritual "seeds" on people, and make people breathe alpine air and hold their heads high.

12. Educated parents are Voltaire. "I don't agree with your opinion, but I will defend your right to speak to the death." They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently asked for their opinions. Don't expect children to learn to obey by beating and cursing. As a result of killing chickens for monkeys, monkeys also learned to kill chickens.

13. Let children become passionate and rational people. "Without passion, no great cause will have a good start; Without reason, no feat will have a good ending. "

14. Let your children become educated people. Education begins with punctuality, queuing, not talking loudly in public and not getting angry easily.

15. Be kind. If your child is kind, please don't laugh at his weakness. People who like to take advantage of small things often suffer big losses because they are rejected by others. He who is willing to suffer a small loss will take a big advantage in the future, because he is liked by people.

16. Physical vitality can bring spiritual vitality. A healthy person has a sunny personality. People in poor health are hesitant, evasive and hesitant.

17. Don't think that 1 a child aged 6 is just the age of growth. If parents let their children spend time with grandparents 1 until they are 6 years old, and parents take their children back to primary school when they are 6 years old, then the children will either become silent dumb or lawless troublemakers in primary school.

18. Always do three things with children: one is to have dinner with children, the other is to ask children to repair toys, furniture or clothes, and occasionally ask children to help solve work difficulties. The third is to tell stories to children and invite them to tell stories themselves.

19. If there is no special difficulty, parents had better go home to have dinner with their children every day. The common values of the family are established in the process of eating around a table.

20. Tell children stories and invite them to tell their own stories, so that children can establish reading and writing habits from listening to stories, learn to read independently as soon as possible, and develop the habit of lifelong reading as soon as possible. "As long as people are still studying, they will not completely degenerate. People who are completely degraded will not learn. " Parents who never tell stories to their children are irresponsible parents.

2 1. Children's growth has three critical periods: the first is about 3 years old, the second is about 9 years old, and the third is about 13 years old. Missed the critical period of growth, and the future troubles are endless.

22. Not "standing at thirty", but "standing at three". At the age of three, children must establish the courage and habit of self-reliance. You must do what you can and do what you should.

23. If your child likes Frost's poem when he is 13 years old, it is normal that "two roads branch in the forest, and I choose the one with few people". Don't worry, he may choose the one with more people in the future.

24. It is necessary for parents to reason with their children, but it is more important to pay attention to their speech posture when reasoning with children around 13 years old. Otherwise, the child will be disgusted and will resist. Children will say: everything you say is right, but the way you speak is annoying.

25. The secret in your heart is a sign of your maturity. If a child has something on his mind and doesn't want to tell you, then don't force him to tell his secret.

26. It is best to have a laissez-faire parent around the age of 3. Around the age of 9, it is best to have an active and authoritative parent around you. Before and after the child 13 years old, it is best to have a negative and democratic parent around him. Effective education is first strict and then loose, while ineffective education is first loose and then strict.

27. You must pay attention to your child's academic performance, but don't care too much about his ranking. Be wary of those children whose academic performance is always the first. Some children have good academic performance and good personality, while others have good academic performance, but they are selfish, unsympathetic and uninterested in life.

28. Your child must learn to associate with others and accept friends happily. "If parents are dissatisfied with their neighbors, are very picky about their children's friends, or don't let their children make friends with them and make them feel as if they are very different from others, then it will be difficult for these children to get along naturally with anyone when they grow up.

29. Children need companions to grow up, so that children can have their own friends, but not too messy partners. Before children form mature rationality and judgment, they should be alert to the bad habits of their peers.

30. Let your children establish a healthy aesthetic as soon as possible. Promising men will definitely like healthy women. Don't let your child's aesthetics fall into a low-level morbid state. Don't think that a minor illness is good. Don't think that the strong are all bad. Don't think sparrows, sheep and puppies are cute, and don't think lions, tigers and wolves are bad. Don't think that jackals eat people, and jackals only eat the weaker ones.

3 1. The Catcher in the Rye contributed a word to the world: observation. Education is neither management nor neglect. Between management and no matter, there is a word called "look".

32. Tell children that children who listen carefully will occasionally get good grades, and children who study hard will always get good grades.

Parents and children are like two big trees and small trees, separated from each other and close to each other. Big trees should shelter small trees from wind and sand, leaving enough space for small trees to feel the sunshine and breathe the air.

Only in this way can young trees stretch freely and thrive in their own space. A small tree that is too close to the big tree cannot grow into a towering tree, while a small tree that is too far away from the big tree has to resist the wind and sand alone. Although they are extremely strong, they are easy to deform or die.