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How to educate a 7-year-old boy correctly?
The 7-year-old boy began to have self-esteem. The education of a 7-year-old boy can never be solved by violence. So how to educate a seven-year-old boy? Bian Xiao has prepared a set of educational methods for seven-year-old boys. \x0d\ Give correct guidance according to his interests, read some useful extracurricular books, take part in beneficial extracurricular activities, and don't restrict children's activities at the beginning. In the face of children, what parents can do at this time may just need a little special attention. Calm down and try the following methods! There is always a way to work! \x0d\ Select a toy. For example, a big ball, let children kick hard, to eliminate their long-term depressed emotions. Then use music to resolve children's emotions and cultivate children's interest in music. Even the fiercest beasts are softened by music. Contact nature. At first, you can go to some places where the environment can arouse children's interest and attract children's attention with the colorful world outside. Flying kites, swinging or playing football in a beautiful natural environment, outdoor activities can completely release all the energy of the baby. Let naughty children do more. For example, sharing some cooking skills with his parents and making his favorite chocolate biscuits together will greatly arouse his interest and relieve his exuberant energy when he finds that mixing all the prepared foods into delicious biscuits like magic. Take your child to the market together, and he will be very excited to help you push the shopping cart and help your parents settle accounts, which will have unexpected effects on curious children. This not only increases children's self-confidence, but also has the function of cultivating good emotions. \x0d\ How to educate boys correctly according to these characteristics? Here are some suggestions for parents: \x0d\ First, love, support and cultivate children's spirit of exploring new things. \x0d\ When children are interested in things around them and want to find out the truth, parents should not only be bored, but also encourage and answer. Some questions parents can't answer at the moment, so tell him when you understand. Many famous scientists, their creativity and inventiveness are curiosity that germinated when they were young. Parents must cherish their children's wisdom buds. When answering a child's question, it is best not to give him the answer directly, but to show him how to get the answer, such as through experiments and finding books, so that the child can find the answer by himself. Parents can do experiments and read books with their children. This can cultivate children's ability to solve problems independently, master the methods to solve problems, cultivate children's feelings for books, interest in learning, and understand the meaning and benefits of reading, that is, they will not feel bored when they study at school. \x0d\ Don't impose excessive punishment on children's actions of unpacking toys and utensils, but make a concrete analysis. We should affirm his spirit of exploration, but at the same time, we should also pay attention to educating him to cherish things and the fruits of others' labor. Some children, out of curiosity, take toys and electrical appliances apart to find out their internal structure and working principle; Some children also use toys for other purposes, which is the bud of his creativity. As long as it is not intentional destruction, it should not be blamed, but should be given correct guidance. However, it should also be noted that some children tear things apart, which is purely destructive behavior, such as smashing chairs and bowls. Parents must not tolerate this and must severely criticize and stop it. In short, we must objectively analyze the motivation of boys' "deviant" behavior, emphatically affirm and develop its positive aspects, and conduct correct guidance on this premise. If the child thinks that you understand and respect him, he will listen to you and explore things in the right way.