Marriage is a contract with corresponding rights, responsibilities and obligations. Marriage is not only a voluntary act of both parties, but also a moral obligation and legal constraint. Therefore, marriage is not arbitrary, and it is bound to be restricted by many social factors.

2. Understand the requirements of married life.

The family formed by marriage is the cell of social organization. Marriage is not only a world of two people, but also various blood relations and kinship relations derived from it must be handled well. Love relationship, economic relationship, sexual relationship and legal relationship in marriage are all realized through the responsibility, loyalty and understanding of both husband and wife.

3. Establish correct expectations for your spouse.

In the first few days after marriage, establishing a practical expectation with each other can make marriage a hospital for treating "childish diseases", consciously analyze yourself, know yourself, understand each other, put yourself in others' shoes, and realize the harmonious coexistence between newlyweds.

4. Correctly treat the differences in cognitive characteristics between husband and wife.

After marriage, there will be all kinds of problems that need husband and wife to think and decide together. We should understand the gender differences between men and women's ways of thinking, so as to establish a common foundation of their cognitive attitudes as soon as possible. Both sides should not be self-centered, but should take their differences as complementary factors in dealing with problems.

5. Realize the role balance of husband and wife.

There may be differences in social roles between husband and wife, and differences in quality, personality, psychological characteristics and behavior habits will affect the roles played by husband and wife in the family. At the beginning of newly married life, husband and wife must understand each other's requirements and wishes, make their family roles both personalized and flexible, and constantly adjust each other's role requirements. Both sides should improve themselves, give full play to their respective strengths, and try their best to shorten the differences, so as to achieve the balance of husband and wife roles.

6. Adapt to each other's personality and living habits.

In marriage, both husband and wife should have their own family habits and their own personality. Both sides should learn to exercise restraint, learn to be flexible and learn to adapt to each other. In particular, we should pay attention to getting rid of our bad habits and strive to change our weaknesses and shortcomings. The two sides should establish a relationship of mutual respect, trust and sincerity.

7. I wish you a happy wedding life. Couples must be fully psychologically prepared before having sex for the first time.

During the first sexual intercourse, the woman's hymen is broken, which may bring some pain. Husbands should move gently. You can also use a variety of gradual methods to alleviate the woman's pain. It is normal that sexual life is not necessarily successful in the early stage of marriage, and they can adapt to each other for a period of time to achieve the harmony of sexual life. Sexual harmony between husband and wife can also be achieved through the consultation and guidance of doctors or sexologists. In this regard, the positive factors of mental psychology often play a decisive role.

8, should understand contraception, eugenics, parenting, parenting knowledge, know how to prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

At the beginning of marriage, both parties need to adapt and adjust, and may not be suitable for raising children in the short term. Therefore, it is necessary to choose a contraceptive method acceptable to both parties and make a birth plan suitable for both parties. With the progress of society, in order to improve people's marriage and population quality, newly-married sex education is becoming more and more important, and its content is constantly enriched and its form is changed to make it more in line with the needs of newly-married men and women.