Problem description:

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I want to use it in the debate.

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Analysis:

1。 Frustration is the experience that life gives.

Experience is the wealth of one's success.

2。 One kind of education is "frustration education", which only grows in frustration. Japan grew up under this kind of education.

3。 People always remember their mistakes clearly. Only when they make mistakes can they avoid making the same mistakes when they encounter the same thing next time. This shows that setbacks are good for growth.

Falling in love in the college entrance examination is frustrated, and you can't find an ideal industry after graduating from college ... People will inevitably encounter various difficulties in social life. No matter scientific development or social progress, it is impossible for anyone not to encounter any difficulties, and it is impossible to overcome them without obstacles. Psychologically, it is called "frustration" that a person's behavior towards his own goals is hindered and his needs are not met.

When people encounter setbacks, they will have emotional reactions such as disorientation, upset, anxiety and depression. People will take certain measures to deal with setbacks. Some people get angry. Attacks are sometimes directed at people and things that hinder them, and sometimes they are angry at others and even hurt themselves. This will not only fail to solve the problem, but also easily lead to new conflicts, sometimes endangering people or breaking the criminal law. Anger can lead to disharmony in interpersonal relationships. Others will show indifference and concession when encountering setbacks, as if they don't care about the situation of setbacks, but there is deep pain hidden in their hearts; Others are devastated, smoking and drinking, and drinking to drown their sorrows. These are passive coping styles that people consciously or unconsciously adopt. Sometimes it can temporarily relieve the tension and pain caused by setbacks, but this is an escapist reaction, which can only make people more depressed and painful.

There are natural factors that the objective outside world cannot overcome: political, economic, moral, ethical, interpersonal and social factors; But also internal factors such as ability limitation, physical and psychological defects.

Everyone has different ability to bear setbacks, that is, individuals have different ability to bear blows or setbacks. Tolerance of setbacks can not only be obtained through study and exercise, but also be very beneficial to psychological stability and mental health. Then people who have experienced many setbacks can often cope with setbacks calmly, while teenagers with shallow life experience have poor ability to cope with setbacks. At present, some scholars advocate more frustration education for only children. The so-called frustration education is actually learning and exercising the ability to cope with setbacks. In the face of setbacks, we might as well take the following measures:

1 realize that setbacks are inevitable phenomena in real life, and sometimes inevitable setbacks are indispensable for personal personality development. If you have this understanding, you will be psychologically prepared to face setbacks. When setbacks happen, you can face them to the maximum extent.

Achieve the original goal through renewed efforts. Didn't Edison fail thousands of times when he invented the light bulb?

When a method is restricted by objective natural factors or social moral norms, it is advisable to seek other feasible and social norms to achieve the same goal. This is a variant of this method.

When a goal cannot be achieved, or the attempt fails, we can consider replacing the original goal with another similar goal to achieve the tension and emotional response caused by frustration. For example, after failing in the college entrance examination, you can study while looking for a job, and realize your needs of learning knowledge, mastering skills, improving personal quality and enriching life through self-study correspondence vocational colleges.

Frustration is good for growth. Every time people experience setbacks, they will gain experiences and lessons from them, and their psychological ability and will to resist setbacks will also be enhanced. However, people have to experience numerous setbacks or failures in their life, and people grow up in setbacks again and again.