Who is more important, school education or family education?

I often hear parents say, "I don't understand education, so I'll leave the children to you."

If education really depends only on teachers and schools, it will really delay children.

Family is the first environment for children to grow up, and parents are their first teachers.

Children's strong will, excellent habits, strong adaptability and good social relations are all cultivated in the family.

Chen Baosheng, Minister of Education, said: If family education is not in place, no matter how good school education is, it will not help.

The way out for education is in school, but the starting point and starting point must be in the family.

Whether children can really become talents depends on how parents educate them. All parents must understand this.

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A child's character

Depends on parents' family education

There is a common voice in society that exaggerates the role of schools and teachers infinitely.

"There are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach well." This makes some parents mistakenly think that children's education is only the responsibility of teachers, and even children go to teachers when they have problems.

But it's parents who really decide a child's life.

Whenever we discuss the differences between children, the first thing we notice is their parents.

If the child gets excellent grades, we will think that his parents attach great importance to education.

The child is polite and polite, and we will think that he has a good tutor.

Even when we mention a celebrity, we first think of his parents.

Lang Lang's success is inseparable from his father's constant efforts to force him to practice the piano. Jay Chou's success can't be separated from his mother's strict supervision on his music study.

Learning to bully is not innate. Behind every excellent child, there are a pair of excellent parents.

Almost all the qualities of a child, including hard work, honesty and trustworthiness, kindness and gratitude, come from family.

Parents' personality determines children's life, and family education affects children's future.

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Parents are role models for children's life.

The influence is far greater than that of teachers.

It is often heard that a child can be known by his parents.

Children are parents' copy paper, and most of their behaviors and natures can be traced back to their parents.

The hit drama "Little Joy" illustrates a truth:

The more harmonious the family relationship, the better the affection between parents, the more appropriate the way to educate children, and the better the children's grades.

In the education of children, the role played by parents is the most critical.

There is a saying that a good father is equal to 200 good teachers.

Once the father participates in education, the change of the child is obvious. Moreover, children can draw great growth energy from their fathers.

The influence of teachers on children may be only three or five years, but the influence of parents on children is all-round and lifelong.

A teacher's thousand words are often not worth a word from his parents.

Parents are the driving force of children's progress, point out the direction and road for children, and are the mentors of children's life.

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We attach importance to school education.

However, family education is often neglected.

Unfortunately, while exaggerating school education, we also ignore family education.

How many parents are busy with work and entertainment in order to earn money to support their families, and have hardly accompanied their children.

Send your child to school, and you will be completely relieved; I feel that I have done my duty to send my children to custody and counseling.

But I don't know my absence, and being lazy to steal from my children will become a lifelong regret.

Teachers are not omnipotent, and even the best teachers can't take the place of parents for education.

Suhomlinski believes that to shape an excellent child, there should be at least six contributions:

Family, school, children's collective, children themselves, books, accidental factors.

Among them, family comes first.

Parents in China are eager to send their children to various tutoring institutions.

I don't know that children's grades may be guaranteed, but other aspects of education are lagging behind.

The competition between middle school students in the same class is, in the final analysis, the competition between parents' comprehensive quality and hard work.

"Top students" are not only cultivated by teachers, but also need the cooperation and support of parents and families.

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If education depends only on teachers

It will really delay the children.

There is a well-known formula in education:

An excellent child =60% family education +30% school education+10% social education.

Family education always plays a decisive role in children's growth.

The child is not the teacher's, it's yours. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers.

Outside the 45-minute class, children should learn how to be a person, how to get along with others and how to get along with the world.

And all this comes from parents' words and deeds.

Teachers are not nannies. Teachers also have their own jobs and families. It is impossible to cover everything of every child.

Parents should also participate in their children's learning and do it themselves, so as not to miss a child's growth in his life.

If parents always follow the wrong educational methods or even ignore them, it will only hurt their children.

Education is a process of growing up with children. Parents must not rush their children, but the children are still.

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The greatest enemy of education

Adults are "afraid of trouble" and "want to save trouble"

Educate children and never be lazy.

Teachers assign homework in the hope that children will study hard at home, but parents never care about trouble;

Teachers invite parents to come to school to discuss their children's problems, but parents always say that they are busy with work and have no time.

Dong Qing said a particularly profound sentence:

When educating children, you choose to earn money instead of disciplining them. When the child grows up, you will earn money hard all your life, which is not worth his failure in one year.

If the son doesn't teach, the father is guilty; What is a teacher? A strict missionary.

Jade is not cut, not a tool; A tree cannot grow without pruning.

This is the truth handed down by our ancestors, and it is equally applicable today.

Educating children is indeed a very hard and trivial thing, but it is the most important responsibility of parents and a lifelong career.

Education needs vigilance and companionship. If you love your child, please give him a quiet education.

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It is the teacher who teaches.

But it must be parents who educate people.

The word "education" is complementary. Teachers are responsible for teaching and parents are responsible for educating people. Both are indispensable.

If educating children is compared to building a house, then the relationship between parents and teachers is equivalent to bricks and cement.

Without the teacher's instruction, children are like a pile of bricks without cement, and no matter how good their personality is, they have no future;

Without parents' education, children are like a pool of cement without bricks, and no matter how smart they are, it is difficult to gain a foothold in society.

I hope all parents understand:

No matter how important, difficult and complicated your job is, please remember that there is a more important, more difficult and more complicated job waiting for you, and that is educating people.

No matter how busy you are at work and how hard you work, you can't find time to spend with your children. Please remember that children's education is only once, and once you miss it, you can't start again.

Teachers always teach the knowledge in textbooks, and outside textbooks, it is the education of parents.

With the teacher's teaching, parents' education is complete.

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There is no good family education

No matter how good the school education is, it is useless.

If school education is the window for children to acquire knowledge, then family education is the door for children to grow up.

Parents are the best starting line for children, and parents' words and deeds are the best education.

Everything about children is the reflection of parents, and the comprehensive quality of parents determines the quality of life of children.

School education is also very important. What is important is that it is an indispensable supplement to family education.

All teachers and parents will always stand on the same front, and it is our responsibility and mission to go all out for each child.

School education and family education, like two war horses on a chariot, complement each other and are indispensable.

Parents support teachers, which means supporting children's growth.

On the way to education, there are no perfect teachers or perfect parents. Let's work together for the future of our children.

After all, one day, our education will be even better because of the beauty of family education!