Nowadays, many parents still use the old education methods when educating their children. Once they find that the child has made a mistake, they will severely punish it, which will easily hurt the child's self-esteem. In addition, children nowadays are particularly independent. If parents don't respect their children, they will easily become more rebellious. Therefore, to educate your children, you must not only know how to speak, but also clearly know the scale and discretion, so that you can benefit endlessly. If strict education is blindly carried out, the relationship between parents and children will only become more and more rigid.
When parents find their children's problems, they must point them out in time and communicate with them in a more equal way, so that children are more willing to listen to their parents' opinions. Parents should also interact with their children more when they are free. You can take your children to an amusement park or travel together, which can enhance the feelings of both sides. This kind of education will bring better results than punishment education, and at the same time, it will make the family atmosphere more intense and intimate.
Blindly long-term punishment will make children unhappy, because in some ways, children now know no less than their parents. If parents don't fulfill their responsibilities, they certainly don't want to listen to their parents' education. In such a high-pressure environment, it is easy to create a bad atmosphere, which will make them shrink back. Therefore, parents should guide their children slowly in a more gentle way when educating their children.