The word "family of origin" is very popular now, which means the family where a person has been staying since birth. In short, one cannot choose one's origin. Parents have many kinds of education for us. Children are bullied by others outside and suffer losses. When they get home, they are laughed at by their parents and even punched and kicked. Why are you so worthless? This is a family that loves to blame. However, some parents do not blindly blame their children's mistakes, but guide their children to reflect on him: why they were bullied and why they made mistakes. Then teach children how to prevent making mistakes and losing money next time. This is the difference between my background and my girlfriend's.

Another point, we also discussed whether parents should keep pace with the times in educating their children. As children grow up, they will know more and more things, and the education of beating and cursing may be out of date. Instead, we should treat them as adults, learn to try to communicate with them and enter their inner world, so as to achieve better results.