First of all, I personally think that children's rebellion is not caused by parents' too much control. Many children whose parents control too much are obedient, so I don't agree with this statement. Rebellion is something that every teenager will experience in the process of growing up, and it is a kind of growth in the psychological transition period of teenagers. Why do many parents often say that the more they manage their children, the more rebellious they are? Is the rebellious behavior of children more serious? Actually, it's not like this.

First of all, the way of education is the most important. This is why some parents are much more disciplined, but their children are not rebellious and will cater to their parents. Some reasons why children are more rebellious when they are disciplined It is all caused by different educational methods. In addition to campus education, family education should also be valued. Therefore, it is necessary to know why children are rebellious, and then learn how to educate and guide children correctly and reduce their rebellious period.

The reasons why most families cause children to become more and more rebellious are as follows: First, they don't understand education and force their children; Second, the education of beating and cursing; Third, excessive criticism, never agree with children. Basically all these points should be corrected. First, don't always force children to do something. For example, forcing children to attend various interest classes. Parents can ask their children's opinions according to their hobbies, and let them make their own choices through communication. Instead of forcing children to study because they feel so good.

Second, the more you beat and scold, the greater the shadow your child has on you, and the greater the resistance in your heart. Not only can you not get good results, but it will cause your child to be withdrawn, frustrated and weak. In severe cases, children will run away from home, get depression, and even end their own lives. Third, reduce criticism and encourage more. When children can't do well, many parents will say, "Why are you so stupid?" If we use another sentence, "you can do better, I believe you can." Would it be better if children were more willing to accept and be encouraged?

Therefore, the rebellious period of children is not caused by too much parental discipline, but by their own wrong educational methods. The correct way of education can make children grow up healthily. If you want to make your children better, please ask parents to know more about how to educate their children and not discipline them in the wrong way.