If you want to change, you must have timely psychological hints to remind yourself to be decisive. If you do it, you won't regret it, and if you regret it, you won't do it. Secondly, things should be considered comprehensively, not trivial and hesitant. Don't worry too much, even if you are wrong, it will help you. What are you afraid of? Without failure, there is no success!
Indecision and indecision are common phenomena in life. Some people go to the streets to ask for a TV set, but because the price is higher and it is not a famous brand, they often compare it again and again and waver again and again. As a result, I ran to many stores and visited many times, but I just couldn't make up my mind.
Psychologists believe that the psychological phenomenon of indecision and indecision in dealing with problems is a sign of weak will.
Why are some people prone to repetition and indecision? This is mainly because:
1. Cognitive impairment: Psychology believes that the lack of a clear understanding of the nature of the problem is the reason why people can't make up their minds and have psychological conflicts. As long as we observe carefully, it is not difficult to find that indecision mostly happens to young people, because young people are inexperienced and lack the necessary knowledge and experience for some things.
2. Emotion: As the saying goes, "Once bitten, twice shy." . Once you encounter a similar situation, you will have a negative conditioned reflex and hesitate.
3. Personality characteristics: Generally speaking, indecisive people have the following personality characteristics: lack of self-confidence, fragile feelings, easy to be hinted, following the crowd, being too cautious and so on.
4. Lack of training: Since childhood, such people have lived a ready-made life in a spoiled family and foundation, and their parents, brothers and sisters are their crutches. Once this kind of person enters the society alone, it is easy to be indecisive.
On the other hand, the family has been too strict since childhood, and the people taught by this kind of education can only follow the rules and dare not cross the line. Once the situation changes, they are worried that they will not meet the requirements, and they will linger on the motivation and make up their minds.
How to overcome this indecision and indecision?
1. Self-reliance: cultivate the courage and confidence of self-confidence, self-reliance, self-improvement and self-reliance, and cultivate the good quality of will in your own character.
2. Decide on trade-offs: Don't pursue perfection. "There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect", and people can decide whether to choose on their own without violating the general principle.
3. Have courage and insight: Psychology believes that people's decision-making level is closely related to their knowledge and experience. The richer a person's knowledge and experience, the higher his decision-making level; On the contrary, the lower. This is what the saying goes, "Be courageous and knowledgeable, knowledgeable and brave." .
4. Active thinking: "If you give something, you will stand; if you don't give anything, you will waste it." Always use your head at ordinary times, study hard and think more, which is the premise and foundation of having an opinion at a critical moment.
5. Calm down when things go wrong: excluding external interference and hints, stabilizing emotions, and being cautious from the outside to the inside will also help to cultivate decisive will.
If you can't make up your mind, just follow your sixth sense. No matter right or wrong, there is no need to regret success or failure. At least you tried!
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