(1) Be strict with yourself everywhere and improve your self-cultivation.

Chen Heqin, a modern educator, said: "Parents should be cautious in everything so that they can do something worthwhile." No matter what parents do, whether consciously or unconsciously, they are role models for their children. Children are best at imitation. If parents don't pay attention to their own details and behave improperly, it is easy to have a negative impact on their children.

(2) If you want to be upright, you must be upright first.

In other words, what parents ask their children to do, the children must do first. Only trustworthy parents can cultivate honest children, and it is difficult for sloppy parents to cultivate children who like cleanliness. No matter how you behave, how you do things, how you study and how you live, you should ask yourself the same requirements first, and then ask your children. Otherwise, let the children do this and that, but they will muddle along. How can children be willing to listen to you?

(3) Example is more important than words.

Many times, children prefer to see what their parents do rather than listen to what their parents say. Therefore, parents had better "talk" less and "do" more. What parents do is more important than what they say. For example, educating children to be honest and parents to be honest first is much more useful than telling the truth a thousand times and ten thousand times. To be a noble person, nothing is more important than parents.