1. Respect children, affirm some practices of children, and then guide children to develop in a healthy direction. Remember not to criticize too much, communicate with children more, and talk and chat like friends.
2. Guidance of parents' behavior. Children are in a rebellious period, and parents should do their duty. Pay attention to every move to set an example for children and pay more attention to the harmony between husband and wife. If children live in a loving family, their hearts will be full of love, and there will be much less rebellious behavior!
3. Make family rules, set an example, work and rest every day, and agree on what you can't do. What must be done is rewarded after it is completed, but it is not punished as it should be. To discuss with the child, the child agrees and signs. Parents should also do it, and children agree with what parents need to do. Write them all down and punish and reward them at the same time. Restrict each other, supervise each other, remind each other, and implement rewards and punishments. Must adhere to 2 1 day. Change it later.
Parents should learn to give their children space, don't nag and don't stare at them every day. We should work with him to solve this problem. Don't complain that the child is not doing well. In fact, parents should be prepared for their children's rebellion, rather than being at a loss after things happen. During this period, many parents often have false depression and gradually form opposition with their children, which is called treason and generation gap, because most parents directly deny the process and original intention of children's fruitful results, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth.
5. Be more active in children's behavior. Say a child's good behavior every day, not just encouragement and praise. Be clear about your behavior. For example, I saw you get up at half past six today. You spent half an hour doing your homework today. You apologize to your mother and take an active part in the sports meeting.
The child's rebellion is light or heavy, which is directly related to the child's personality, family upbringing mode and growth environment. In order to let children spend this special period normally, parents should change their education methods, especially their communication methods, including the timing, occasion and tone of conversation. If a word is inconsistent, it may end in disharmony or even conflict. Parents learn to change themselves is the best way to solve the problem.