"Let's break up!"
A couple was sitting in Starbucks, and the woman broke up.
"Ha ha, find someone who is richer than me and doesn't need my spare tire?" The man looked at the girl standing in front of him calmly.
The girl got up silently to leave, but the boy took her hand. At that moment, I saw the helplessness and desire in the boy's eyes.
"I'm sorry, I'm afraid you can't give me the life I want in the future." The girl resolutely untied the boy's fingers and left indifferently.
The boy grabbed his hair angrily and was crying.
I think at this time, he said to himself, "We agreed never to break up? What was our initial oath? What is our love together? "
What is this? There was a time when the distance between us was not that we didn't love each other, but that reality overcame love and love was not enough.
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I thought everything could be overcome in love. Love doesn't need a loud confession, but a long stream of silent care, because some love is vigorous, but it comes to an abrupt end, and some love is flat, but unexpectedly warm and long, but I firmly believe that as long as there is love, everything can be overcome, but today's concept has become fragile in this society.
I have always felt that the concept of domestic people has become realistic, abandoning spirit and soul and looking at material things outside love.
No house or car has become a necessary excuse for breaking up. Many girls' ideas are "flat and cheap couples lose everything." They long for the upper class or a better material life than before, but won't they be sad if they really have a house and a car? Marriage without love foundation is like a castle without a cornerstone, which will collapse at any time, so I firmly believe that there must be love in the world.
At that time, Lyu3 bu4 had a BMW iron halberd, which brought trouble to the three armed forces to send himself. Li Longji abandoned Chaogang, destroyed Kaiyuan Shi Sheng, and messed up the world; Wu Sangui is even more angry from embarrassment, and his family is ruined; And the missing Shunzhi, trapped by love, left the dragon chair and abandoned the country.
There are so many touching love stories since ancient times that there must be a taste of love in the world.
Now, I guess foreign countries may pay more attention to the pursuit of love. They pay attention to the feelings of two people together and the resonance of the spiritual world. But an overseas phone call told me that love is really fragile in front of reality. No matter at home or abroad, having no money is really a headache.
Jason is an American student. As a "cheesy" who lives in a fifth-tier city like me, he is a little tall.
Why do you say that? Because children who can study abroad have at least some financial support at home, ordinary families can support the hardships of a college student, let alone go abroad.
Although his love story is far from my world, it is true.
20 14 Jason met Ricci in a bar where friends sang together. Jason is in Iowa and Ricky is in Phoenix. It was a wonderful fate that they met in a bar.
Jason majored in industrial engineering, while Matteo Ricci majored in violin.
A soft light shone on Rui Xi's face. She was intoxicated by the sound of her piano, her long hair fluttering and her unique literary temperament fascinated Jason. In his world, the girl is a perfect fairy, and he will spend all his money to catch up with this woman who makes his heart beat.
But some buddies laughed at him for being emotional, while others laughed at him for being a cold, aloof and out-of-touch woman with different spiritual worlds.
He sneered, because in his wandering life, there was not an example of making mistakes. As long as he Jason wants it, nothing can escape.
Maybe it was God's arrangement that Jason happened to break into Ricci's world. Ruixi is a quiet person and likes to be alone. She was interviewed in the United States alone, preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, which aroused Jason's desire to protect Ruixi. It takes him more than 30 hours to drive to Phoenix in Ricci.
In Jason's words, it is like this: "Hey hey! I found the treasure, this girl is so beautiful, and that one-foot waist is good! "
Perhaps it is the loneliness in a foreign country, or it may be the mutual attraction of hormones. Did Jason "clean up" the simple and kind Reese? A person who used to like "hooking up" regretted it inexplicably. He wanted to give her a love that blushes when holding hands, but it developed too fast.
From then on, he seems to be a different person, from a man who plays around and treats his feelings as a game to a warm man who wants to give Ruixi a future, and a mature heart is awakened from his bones.
Jason took Ricky to a special hidden shop and ate a sandwich from the California Club. He took Ricky to a rest area in butterfly park, Arizona, and watched squirrels and sparrows jumping on the tree tops. He felt particularly happy at that moment. Ricky leaned on his shoulder, and they chatted and felt quiet and comfortable.
In order to make Ruixi live a better life, Jason used his spare time after studying abroad to work, reasonably arranged and used the money sent by his family, and saved money on Ruixi.
They love each other very much. Jason always feels that nothing can stop the power of their love. Ricci's lonely world is ignited by Jason's fiery passion. She can see the world and get in touch with people without hiding in the room and playing the lonely violin alone.
But time Ran Ran, after all, can't escape from reality.
In 20 15, it took Ricci only one year to graduate from graduate school, but Jason stayed in an American school for further study. The reason is simple, because Jason of Ricci graduated early at the age of three.
Jason wants to marry Rihee. He wants to give Rihee an explanation and a stable home. After all, the girl spent two years on him. He is a man, and it is not too late to get married at the age of 35. Ruixi graduated at 27. For a girl, youth is short, and Jason is responsible for Ruixi's life. In America, foreign students can get married, let alone be lovers.
I think at this point in the story, everyone will applaud and say, "It's a pity to be together, together …".
Rui Xi returned to China in 20 15, and Jason could only say "I love you, Rui Xi" on the phone.
Unfortunately, once infatuated, once fleeting, once vows of eternal love, once ........... returned to China, Jason smelled the change of Ruixi. Ruixi studied violin, but the way back to China was not so smooth. His thoughts and values were influenced by his family and friends. Ruixi is confused, afraid of real life, eager for superior material life, and wants to get a better life, but she doesn't want to let go of Jason's hand.
Jason advised Ruixi to go back to America. At least there is a market in the United States, and the way out for violin is outside China. He will give Ruixi a home and take care of her as much as possible. He will try his best to establish himself in America. Jason's parents also agreed to let him settle in America and help them buy a house.
Jason can't give Rui Xi a rich or expensive life, at least an ordinary well-off life is not a problem. His major after graduation is extremely popular. In addition, he has accumulated some experience in his studies in recent years, which also enabled him to marry Rui Xi safely.
But Matteo Ricci hesitated, and love showed signs of fluctuation.
In July, Ricci needs to go back to the United States to attend a music festival in Deluce. Jason happily took Ruixi to Deluce, visited an Italian veteran's shop, took her to eat fish steaks caught by the lake and drank a 50-dollar tiramisu. Jason always tells Reese what he has seen and heard in America, but unfortunately there is no joy on her face. Her thoughts are changing, and her stories always contain sadness and fear of the future. Jason refrained from telling Reese that he had arranged to buy a house, and he didn't tell Reese that he was actually tired. He works while attending class. He doesn't want to make his beloved woman anxious and unhappy.
But Matteo Ricci always cries alone when playing the violin. No one can understand, including Jason, where her sadness comes from.
They are not poor in America.
Falling in love, why are you sad?
Ruixi is getting more and more anxious, even a little too much. Jason tried to calm her fidgety heart by proposing marriage, but Ricci was evasive. There is always something hidden in her eyes, which is unpredictable, but the taste of love is changing.
Jason doesn't understand that all women long for stability, but when it comes to Reese, they become silent. How many women are eager to meet a man who can hold hands with her in the future, but Reese, who is three years older than her, is not eager for marriage and doesn't understand what she is spending? Wait for what?
Jason is a well-educated businessman family in China. He is not rich, nor does he have much financial problems. Although he was young and had an ignorant past, his world changed when he met Ruixi. He is planning their future step by step, and he is also worried about the future of Ruixi. He even used his relationship to help Ruixi as much as possible. Even if Rihee doesn't work, he will try his best to take care of Rihee. As long as he still loves each other, nothing else is a problem.
Because Jason is a smart man with a brain, in the past few years in the United States, a lot of income has come from his brain to earn money. Although dangerous and tired, he is content to have Ruixi in a foreign country. So among the international students, Ruixi is a happy girl, and Jason is also competitive. Within a year, Ricci was allowed to take a good car and enter some high-end restaurants in the United States. Rui Xi is never stingy with this money?
Jason loves Rui Xi very much. He really can't understand the change of Rui Xi. Ray Xi always throws away his face inexplicably, gets angry with Jason inexplicably, and inexplicably scolds Jason for not understanding her spiritual world.
Jason is very tired. Is that kind of mental fatigue? Is it because Rixi doesn't love him? Why didn't he say anything about breaking up? Ruixi no longer thinks it is meaningful for them to go to the small park to feed the squirrels together, and he will not save money for Jason because Tiramisu is expensive.
Asked Jason what skills can give her the future she wants, Jason was speechless, because she was getting more and more realistic, and the reality was outrageous. Jason understands that life is a beautiful life for two people who love each other.
Jason is calm. He can't find any trace of Rui Xi, but he still loves her very much. Love is heartbreaking, humble, trampled by Rui Xi, and every time I think of breaking up, I am forced back by the only beauty I have ever had.
On 20 16, Jason was forced to reluctantly break up. Ruixi doesn't want to marry him, but Jason can't find the love between Ruixi and him. They are clearly together, but their hearts are not together My friends all saw the change of Rixi. The life she yearns for is a pampered life in a luxury villa, with a nanny and a man crazy about literature and art accompanying her. The man not only has money, but also gives her a tacit understanding spirit.
However, today's Rui Xi is worried that if he leaves Jason, he won't meet anyone better than Jason, but he is afraid that marrying Jason in such a hurry will ruin his life and consume this relationship. Friends collectively advised Jason to give up, because Rui Xi can only share wealth with him, but he can't share joys and sorrows.
Jason finally gave up hard. He doesn't want to delay Ruixi's youth, and he doesn't want to be tortured in this love. In the end, he lost to reality. Ruixi left him and never looked back, which broke Jason's heart. But love spread all over his body like poison, which made him suffer from lovelorn. However, he missed Ruixi again and again, hoping that she would come back and be together again. It's just his luxury. Is he not good? I just can't imagine a rich life for Reese.
Jason said, "is there no love in this world except money?" The so-called spiritual world of nonsense is just an excuse for one party not to love. Two people together, in the same time and space, will feel very warm. The poor have the happiness of the poor, and the rich have the pain of money. Everyone has gone to play with the mood, and there is still time to earn money to survive. The so-called spiritual world is just people's desire for beauty and escape from reality, but they want so many things that not everyone can marry into a rich family and live a happy life. "
After hearing Jason's love story, I feel very sad. I don't understand that people who once loved each other so much will become distorted and unhealthy, tortured each other and calculated by one side with the change of time and value. Is this the only way to love?
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When faced with bread or love, which one would you choose? When two people who have problems in survival talk about love together, they and others feel extravagant, but for better material conditions, it will make people disdain and disdain to give up those who have shared weal and woe. In the emotional world, it is always difficult to choose between bread and love, because many people think that love is somewhat insignificant. Is there love or not?
I think love is to walk into each other's world carefully, without impurities and too much consideration.
You love me, share your own stories, watch the sunrise and sunset together, whisper in your ear, and when you cry, they embrace each other and cry, never abandoning each other's embarrassing side and working together to overcome difficulties.
Every time we meet, we can look at each other with a smile, look at each other with deep affection, and meet each other late, because it is not easy. Two unrelated people can meet physically, tolerate each other and help each other through their lives.
We have all experienced love. Some love begins inexplicably, some love is sweet, and some love is sad. However, most people's love will not be simply divided into these categories. It is a tortuous and complicated state, and they will break up before the wedding.
Is there still love in this world? Do you still believe in love? Are you willing to share joys and sorrows with the people you love? No house, no car, dare you say it doesn't matter, I can earn, can we earn together? But in this whirlpool of love rushing to marriage, some things may be immeasurable.
Therefore, no matter how realistic life is, I still believe that there is still love in the world, but it can be met but not sought!
Selected essays on the summary of hospital safety production month activities 1
I. Guiding ideology
Adhere to the guida