The contradiction of choosing schools in basic education puzzles many families. At present, this problem may exist for a long time because of the limited resources of high-quality education in society and the lack of conditions to completely solve contradictions.

What parents can do now is to overcome anxiety as much as possible, study with teachers, observe common sense, jointly build a school suitable for children and give them a proper education. In my work, I found that many families always respect their children's choices when they go to school, instead of arranging for them. After all, this is their own business, and they should be given the opportunity to think and choose from an early age.

I have observed that these students are not necessarily outstanding in their studies, but they have personal will, the ability to choose and judge, self-confidence and stronger ability to overcome difficulties than ordinary students.

When parents choose a good education or school for their children, they should also pay attention not to exceed the family's financial ability. Although they can "do whatever it takes" for their children, they will objectively cause great mental stress to their children.