Emotional parenting is to give children emotional response and pay, spend more time with children, and respond to their needs in time. Some parents said that they were busy and entrusted their children to "TV nanny" and "mobile nanny". Although I bought expensive food, clothes, toys and other high-end products for my children, I neglected the efficient companionship of parents and children. Children are rich in material things and lacking in spirit. Children have a psychological black hole of lack of love. When they grow up, they will be moved to make some decisions when they are slightly concerned by others, and these decisions are all caused by unequal love.

? In the past, when there were many children, although parents were busy supporting their families and had no more energy to accompany their children, brothers and sisters had a good time and enjoyed each other. At that time, social security was good, and a group of children could play in public. Without adult supervision, children's childhood is dominated by play. Although the material conditions are far worse than now, as children, their freedom is relatively high.

? In the process of replacing classes, I also found that some children are particularly timid, afraid to communicate with others, and like to chew their fingernails. Parents' reasoning and beating and scolding are useless. These are children who are not emotionally cultivated enough. Before they were three years old, they didn't get enough company and constant response from their parents. Their hearts are insecure, and they are always worried and nervous.

? Parents who can't give their children more affection at the age of three should make up this lesson for their children and recommend a parent-child interactive game "Magic Gloves of Love".

? Find a new glove for an adult, and then wrap four fingers with different materials, such as soft silk and cotton cloth, woolen cloth with a slightly rough feel (it is better to use a new sack, but it is difficult to find it), smooth leather and so on. Touch your child quietly every night, starting with a material, and each material lasts for about a week, so that the child's whole body skin can feel the gentle touch and love of parents, fully satisfy the child's skin hunger, and form a "flow of love" with the child.

? I have played this method with my son and taught more than 5000 parents. Last month, I taught 158 parents, and less than 3% of them really finished! Parents always say they are too busy. Now you tell your children that you are busy. In the future, when we are old, we still expect our children to accompany us. Guess what the children will say.

? No pains, no gains; You sow, you love; With your love, you also love to return!