Choose a dead city and grow old together. When you were young, you met the person who moved you. It happened that the years didn't disappoint the people you love. They entered the marriage hand in hand, quarreled in the besieged city of marriage, and finally had a house full of children and grandchildren, and finally enjoyed the family happiness. When you were young, you worked hard for your dreams. When you are old, you never look up and sigh again, but have a contented aftertaste: this life is finally not too regrettable!

This may be the happiness of most people. It is also wonderful to have this ordinary and stable life, but the world always needs some legends. The same happiness will make the world less colorful. At the end of the Qing Dynasty and the beginning of the Republic of China, there was a talented woman who never fell in love and got married, stayed away from trivial marriage and lived a wonderful life.

She was the first talented woman Lv Bicheng who founded a girls' school in the Republic of China. When she was young, her family was ruined, cut off by her husband's family, suppressed by her relatives and forced to live on the streets. However, she lived a different life with her own efforts and wisdom. She told us with her legendary life:

Beautiful blooming is not waiting for the arrival of butterflies. What a wonderful thing it is to bloom beautifully all your life. The significance of blooming is to show your own light and color, not just for the favor of butterflies.

Therefore, Lv Bicheng never fell in love or got married. She has lived her life in the most unique way, far away from the love of marriage in the world. She has never been polluted by the fireworks of marriage. She was pure, lofty and independent all her life, and became the Bai Yueguang of countless men.

Lv Bicheng was born into a noble family, and his family background was the kind of Daxing family that everyone envied at that time. Her father, Lu Fengqi, is a well-read poet with a bachelor's degree, and has a collection of ten thousand books at home. She was a scholar in Guangxu for three years, and her mother Yan was born in a scholarly family and read widely since childhood. In such a beautiful environment, Lv Bicheng, who is smart and alert, has been a little genius since childhood and is deeply loved by his family. Many aristocratic families also climbed into love with Lu. My father also chose a beautiful marriage for Lv Bicheng. If the road of life will be as smooth as expected, Lv Bicheng may be a happy little woman in this life, singing poetry, painting and playing the piano, taking care of her husband and educating her children, being a rich woman with background and backing, and being as simple and happy as ordinary people.

However, things are always so fickle, and Lv Bicheng's life is doomed to be neither too smooth nor too ordinary. Her happy days were only five years old, and then she was in constant pain. The two brothers who loved her died one after another, which caused a great blow to his family. Her father's huge family has no successors, and the Lujia family has become a "family without children." However, when fate wants to deliberately torture a person, it is often not soft, and it seems that enough is enough. /kloc-at the age of 0/2, her favorite father died of an old illness at a party. The sky in Lvjia really collapsed, leaving my mother and sister, a group of orphans and widows, and my life has entered a trough.

At first, Lv Bicheng thought that the biggest disaster was the sudden death of his father. He never thinks he is too naive. His father's death is like a key to hell. In the past, kind uncles showed their true colors. Because women did not have the right to inherit at that time, family disputes were on the verge. The huge fortune left by Lv Bicheng's father Lv Fengqi has become a lighthouse in their eyes. Everyone wants to step on Lv Bicheng's mother and daughter and hold them in her arms. My mother was kidnapped by her family because she didn't want to transfer her property. Several sisters tried to rescue her many times, but when she left the Lujia gate, the orphans and widows had nowhere to go and were at a loss.

This "face change" made Lv Bicheng deeply realize that human nature is so fragile and ugly in the face of interests. Except for flesh and blood relatives, those usually kind faces are just bloodthirsty wolves in disguise.

Lu's mother and daughter are penniless and homeless. A woman is weak, but she is just a mother. Her mother Yan took her daughter everywhere for help. Before, her pampered daughter had never been so despised, but for the sake of her children, she had no choice.

Finally, I decided to go to Lv Bicheng's fiance's house for help. After eating a meal without company, they were swept out of the house and Lv Bicheng was separated by the Wangs. Uncle Wang, who used to be very close to his father, and Uncle Wang, who always brought gifts to Lv Bicheng at home, became extremely cold and strange at this moment. In ancient times, breaking off an engagement was a great insult to women. This divorce has cast a great shadow on Lv Bicheng's feelings, so that she has been avoiding her future marriage.

Compared with the previous scenery, this sadness soaked every nerve of the mother and daughter. In desperation, my mother had to take Lv Bicheng's sisters to Anhui, to come to my uncle. When she came to her uncle's house, Lv Bicheng's life began another journey. Compared with the expected life, this disaster made Lv Bicheng, who was pampered in the past, die, and Lv Bicheng, who was born again, will be strong and independent.

There is a saying that:

There is no natural power, but the wound will scab slowly if it bleeds too much, and the hard scab will protect the fragile wound like armor. Everyone who looks strong has come from suffering. They shed too many tears, carrying too much struggle and sadness, in exchange for their impeccable attitude.

Lv Bicheng's future strength and independence are armor after repeated injuries. In the future, with this armor, she immediately broke into this world and created her own life.

The so-called parents love their children, which has far-reaching influence. Motherly love can make a weak woman give birth to a suit of armor, put on armor, protect her children like a soldier and love her own flesh and blood like an angel. Yan returned to Lai 'an with several children, looking forward to her study and future, but unwilling to tie her up with her, so she was sent to Tanggu, where her uncle Yan worked, for a new education. This decision changed Lv Bicheng's life.

When I came to live with my uncle in Tanggu, he treated her like his own daughter. However, like Daiyu who lives in Jia's house, she always seems very cautious when she lives in other people's houses. She was afraid that one of her actions would disappoint her uncle and disgust her aunt. So at the age of thirteen or fourteen, Jiu learned to be an eloquent, clever and sensible girl, losing the child's most childlike nature and suppressing the child's active nature.

As the saying goes: people move their lives, trees move their lives, and Lv Bicheng comes to Tanggu, which is the real life. She walked out of the pain of family breakdown, out of the shame of divorce and plunged into the ocean of knowledge. My uncle and aunt are very kind to her, and Lv Bicheng, who is sensitive inside, tries her best to be a good boy and not to make trouble for her two relatives.

Throughout the ages, people who have made achievements in literature are insensitive. If he is not sensitive enough, how can he appreciate the beauty of great rivers and mountains, and how can he perceive the troubles in the world? From the point of view of praise, why is sensitivity not an innate talent? With this talent, Lv Bicheng has made great achievements in poetry and lyrics. According to later research, she was the last successful poetess in the history of China, which also benefited from her high sensitivity.

In Tanggu, Lv Bicheng is happy. My uncle's family is well-off, and he is taken care of by servants. Concentrated on his studies, his sister also married Yan's family. Zhong got married before his father died. She is brilliant. For her, marriage is not a bondage, but a icing on the cake. My sister often takes care of her life, and her talent is appreciated by her uncle Yan and her father's best friend, two elders and her father.

On the other hand, Xianman, mother and sister were kidnapped by relatives in collusion with kidnappers because of their hatred and covetousness. Young Lv Bicheng was at a loss, and her sisters couldn't think of a way. After many twists and turns, Lv Bicheng turned to Zengxiang Fan to save her mother. This is the second time that her mother has been kidnapped. Lv Bicheng was troubled by her mother. Because they didn't want to be humiliated, mother and sister chose to commit suicide by taking poison, and eventually failed, but her inner scars were also forged.

A wanderer in a foreign land has a soft spot, and this soft spot is his family. If his family is healthy and peaceful, the wanderer can let go to pursue his own ideals. If his family encounters problems, the wanderer's heart is like being shot by an arrow, breathless, angry, worried, helpless and anxious. ...

For a long time, Lv Bicheng's mood was very complicated and depressed. Fortunately, her mother and sister didn't show up again, and people around her supported her many times. Lv Bicheng will not let down those who have expectations for themselves and treat themselves sincerely. Her talent is getting richer and richer, and she is gradually becoming famous. Because of the overall situation, Lv Bicheng has gradually formed some ideas to change the status quo.

She doesn't want to be just a little woman who can only live on others. At this time, the seeds of the concept of equality between men and women have gradually sprouted in her heart. She thinks:

Women should also live a wonderful life, rather than blindly packaging themselves to please men. The destination of life is not to find a good man to marry. Women and men should be equal, not women attached to men. Everyone is an independent individual.

What love looks like in her mind should be: great rivers and mountains should be pursued by two people, the hardships of life should be shared by two people, and the great cause should be worked hard by two people. ...

So Lv Bicheng wants to go out of the small world of Tanggu and see the outside world.

According to the current life track, Lv Bicheng's life is actually very happy. My uncle has started looking for good-looking young talents for her in a big family. Like my sister, it seems good to finish school smoothly, assign a decent and relaxed job, and live a stable life with a suitable man.

However, Lv Bicheng is not the kind of person who wants to be arranged. She is so stubborn that I can't stop what I'm looking for. After consulting with her uncle and being rejected by her uncle on the grounds that she has no female virtue, she no longer expects to get her uncle's permission. After writing an unsent letter to her mother, she was penniless and left alone on the road to Tianjin. She wants to give up her past life and go to the sun, so the story behind her will let.

After Lv Bicheng left, she went to Dazhaimen newspaper several times and met her first noble Lianzhi Ying, who was destined for love. After seeing Lv Bicheng's letter to Mrs. Fang, Lianzhi Ying admired Lv Bicheng's courage and pattern, especially his beautiful handwriting, which made Lianzhi Ying full of curiosity and expectation for this unyielding girl. So under the arrangement of Mrs Fang, the two met, that is, this side, and Lv Bicheng will always be there.

At that time, Lianzhi Ying was married, and he and his wife had been together since childhood, and once had a passionate love. However, with the appearance of Lv Bicheng, Lianzhi Ying still can't control his feelings. Lv Bicheng came to Ta Kung Pao as an editor, and Lianzhi Ying was the premier of the newspaper. They work together and get along with each other bit by bit, which reflects Lianzhi Ying's uncontrollable love for Lv Bicheng.

In the end, Lianzhi Ying's action attracted the attention of the gentle and kind lady. Instead of looking around for Lv Bicheng's theory, Mrs. Ying chose to go to school to study and practice herself again. In my opinion, Mrs. Ying's approach is quite level. If something goes wrong in a relationship, it's no use trying to stay. Improving yourself, making yourself more confident, better, more independent and better, is what an abandoned person should do most, because here.

On the other hand, Lv Bicheng doesn't know Lianzhi Ying's feelings for her. She thought that she was only grateful for her kindness, but when she saw Mrs. Ying's alienation and sudden departure, she guessed something. She chose to alienate Lianzhi Ying. When she met Mr. and Mrs. Lianzhi Ying at the station, she saw Lianzhi Ying talking and laughing with a beautiful lady, while Mrs. Ying walked behind them alone, and Lv Bicheng's hatred for Lianzhi Ying was born. Until later, she never got the proper explanation.

She has found another job and plans to teach in a girls' school. But because of her strong personality and ability, and the manager of the girls' school she wants to teach is a friend of Mrs Ying, she is unwilling to hire Lv Bicheng. What Lv Bicheng didn't know was that during this period, Lianzhi Ying ran around for her, looking for job opportunities.

Later, everyone thought that if Lv Bicheng went to teach in a school planned by others, it would be difficult to avoid burying her talents. Lv Bicheng also hopes to advocate her women's thoughts by organizing a school, so she plans to establish a school, which is because the preparation of the school needs Yuan Shikai's approval. Lv Bicheng went to Marshal House many times and happened to meet Yuan Shikai's second son, Yuan, who went to Marshal House to raise money to build a school.

In order to prepare for study, Lv Bicheng always works by himself, drafting articles of association, raising funds, inviting directors, booking meetings, looking for school buildings, hiring teachers and visiting education. The daily schedule is full. 1904165438+1October 7th, the opening ceremony of "Beiyang Women's College" was held amid noisy applause and thunder. Since then, this strange girl of 2 1 year-old has become the first female general teacher in the history of education in China.

For women's education, Lv Bicheng thought:

Only virtuous women can have virtuous mothers, and virtuous mothers can have virtuous sons. If a woman is not virtuous, she can't be a virtuous mother after marriage. Without a virtuous mother, how can you teach a good son? How can a country prosper without excellent men? Therefore, for the prosperity of the country, we must first start education from these female students! "

Since the beginning of women's education, she has made indelible achievements in women's new learning. In a sense, she has made great contributions to the change of women's status. To change the status of women, we must first change people's views on the status of men and women. Starting from people's thoughts, Lv Bicheng gradually advocated new ideas.

Lv Bicheng, whose career is booming, doesn't seem to be going well emotionally. Because of the misunderstanding last time, there has been a gap between Lianzhi Ying and Lianzhi Ying. In addition, Lv Bicheng, who is married and pursuing new ideas, will not do anything to make herself look down on herself. However, her feelings are involuntarily controlled by herself. Perhaps she has developed subtle feelings for this man who is also a teacher and friend. Otherwise, she won't break up with her second sister because of her relationship with her second sister Lu.

When Lianzhi Ying's passionate love for Lv Bicheng didn't get a response, she met Lu Sunmei. She was as beautiful as Lv Bicheng, but not as passionate and persistent as Lv Bicheng. Sun Mei is as gentle as water, even her eyes are gentle. Lianzhi Ying was immediately attracted by her tenderness, and they also had a fairy-like love. It is also because of this relationship that Lv Bicheng and Lianzhi Ying broke up with her second sister. The betrayal of the two people she cares most about makes her extremely painful.

Since then, Lv Bicheng seems to be very slow emotionally. She is so beautiful and noble, so talented, and there is no shortage of men around her. Even the second son of Yuan Shikai's family was willing to grovel for her, but Lv Bicheng remained unmoved.

Lv Bicheng's life is: I have all kinds of amorous feelings, and I live in peace with the world. She wears fashionable clothes and likes to dress herself up. No matter where she appears, she is the focus and can attract people around her. Because of mutual affection, she and Qiu Jin hit it off, and they became close friends. Later, because Qiu Jin was arrested and implicated, or Yuan turned to his father for help, she was able to save herself.

Yuan Shikai expressed his appreciation for Lv Bicheng's repeated performances and his achievements in Tianjin. After the closure of Beiyang Girls' School, Lv Bicheng was invited by Yuan Shikai to serve as a presidential adviser in the Presidential Palace and became a female official standing on the same front as men. Later, because of different political views, she left the presidential palace, and her fate with Yuan was ruined. Later, they didn't argue. In the end, Yuan Jia fell and went to visit Yuan, which was also declined. Maybe Yuan didn't want to.

After leaving the presidential palace, Lv Bicheng began to do business and made a fortune that she could never spend all her life. Her fame resounded at home and abroad, and she was beautiful and became the dream goddess of countless people. However, she remained unmarried all her life. She only pursues her own career and no longer looks forward to love, a "pest" who comes and goes without a trace but deeply hurts people.

At that time, Lv Bicheng's beauty often appeared at various parties. At that time, celebrities from all walks of life also sought after Lv Bicheng. Among the celebrities she associates with, there are many talented people and high officials, such as famous poets Zengxiang Fan and Yi Shifu, Yuan Kewen, son of Yuan Shikai, and Li Jingxi, son of Li Hongzhang. But in the matter of marriage, she saw through the world and took it lightly. She always felt that there was no suitable person around her and she would rather die alone.

The attitude towards these celebrities is always "this is not good, that is not appropriate." In her view, "there are not many men who can be praised in life. Liang Rengong is Liang Qichao and has a wife. Wang is younger. Wang Rongbao was a member of the right Senate of the Ministry of Civil Affairs, a member of the House of Representatives, and an ambassador to Belgium and Japan. He was good at calligraphy and poetry. Not bad, and I'm married. Rose Zhang Gong once crusaded for many brave men, and his poems were solid and beautiful, and they were all white when they didn't confuse beards! "

Lv Bicheng once said, "My purpose lies not in my assets and family status, but in my position in literature. Therefore, it is rare to have a good partner, and it is impossible for the East and the West to be incompatible. Fortunately, I have some savings at hand, and I don't worry about food and clothing. I only entertain myself with literature! " Lv Bicheng is a famous young man. At that time, people spoke highly of her literary talent, comparable to Li Qingzhao. So she was lofty since she was a child and refused to give in to herself. Therefore, although she is elegant, she is unmarried for life.

After her money and career reached a high point, she began to travel everywhere, with figures at home and abroad, beautiful pictures at the new york ball and beautiful pictures on the Swiss streets. She leads an extremely luxurious life and spends a lot of money just for her own happiness. In her later years, she began to advocate the prohibition of killing, traveled around and spread her own idea of prohibiting killing, and later began to believe in Buddhism.

1930, 48-year-old Lv Bicheng officially converted to Buddhism and became a Buddhist, calling himself "Baolian". Since then, he has devoted himself to studying Buddhism. After experiencing everything in the world, the world in Lv Bicheng's eyes is calm and satisfied. 19431on October 24th, Lv Bicheng quietly left this world and went to the place where her heart yearned for, with a will beside her:

If my physical life doesn't bring me death, let me jump into the sea of fire and turn to ashes, but I don't want to drift away with the wind or separate my ashes, so please make my ashes into pills and throw them into the sea, so that I can find freedom in the water.

60 years old, an extremely beautiful number. ...