Having a healthy personality is the basis for us to adapt to society and create a better life. Eric Bourne, a psychologist, once founded a systematic interaction theory (TA theory). This theory was later developed by psychologist Harris. TA theory can be summarized as follows: the interaction between people is nothing more than "stimulus" and "reaction", and people are often intertwined with three psychological states-"parents", "children" and "adults". During the child's psychological development, there is a view that "I can't do it, you can't do it". During the child's psychological stagnation, parents sneak into it. Generally, normal people have mental states above, but some mental states are "activated" and some are "inhibited". If you want to have a healthy personality, you must develop your psychological state into an adult psychological state through situational psychological training.

-Excerpted from "100 World Classic Psychology Cases"

Second, the performance of children's adult psychology and children's adult psychology

Generally speaking, this psychological phenomenon is caused by people's sense of responsibility. People's sense of responsibility has two sides. On the one hand, it can make us work hard to create and get more happiness in life. On the other hand, it can make us feel the pressure of the mind, thus reducing the happiness and happiness of life. Therefore, when people face strong psychological pressure, there may be a tendency of "childishness of adult psychology", which is usually manifested as jokes, pranks and unstable emotional changes; When people are forced to take responsibility because of the environment, there will be a tendency of "children's psychological adult", which is usually too serious and serious, giving people the impression of "prude".

Third, the disappearance of youth is a social phenomenon caused by the lack of faith.

"The disappearance of youth" does not mean the disappearance of youth at physiological age, but refers to the disappearance of youth at psychological age. Generally speaking, young people are full of blood and passion. However, in today's society, due to the general lack of faith, it is difficult for people to cultivate real enthusiasm for life. At this time, entertainment is often easy to replace struggle, and it is difficult for many people to understand the meaning of life. To solve the problem of "the disappearance of youth", we need to constantly reflect on people's spiritual structure, understand the meaning of life existence, and establish lofty life beliefs and goals.