Every child will participate in social activities by learning life skills and behavior norms, and become a "social person" from a "natural person". People's socialization starts from the family, so what kind of parenting style parents adopt is directly related to the effect of children's family education. Specifically, we can draw several short conclusions about the influence of different parenting styles on children's socialization:
(1) The more parents use punishment and restriction, the slower children internalize moral rules and form morality.
(2) Spiritual encouragement is superior to material rewards and plays an important role in children's socialization development.
(3) The relationship between parents and children is full of warmth and love. Tolerance and democratic guidance to children can actively promote the development of children's internal control ability and improve their cognitive ability.
(4) Parents should not use a certain parenting method in isolation.
(5) The same parenting style has different effects on children's socialization in different families. If it is the same restriction, its function is negative in authoritarian families and positive and effective in democratic families.
Thirdly, through the analysis of the above four parenting styles, it is undoubtedly necessary to advocate democratic and authoritative parenting styles. Children who grow up under this kind of education have a high degree of self-acceptance, strong corresponding self-confidence, self-esteem and desire for achievement, and are easy to form innovative spirit and practical ability. Only by treating children with a reasonable and gentle attitude can we cultivate their sound self. Children who grow up in this family environment are respected from an early age, and there is no lack of guidance and requirements from their parents. They often become people who love life and are confident.
Fourth, advice to parents.
In a democratic and relaxed family, the feelings among members are harmonious, and the harmonious relationship makes children feel relaxed and happy without any mental pressure. This kind of environment will make children spontaneously intoxicated with fun-filled creative activities, thus promoting the formation of children's good personality and the germination of innovative consciousness. Therefore, parents should create a harmonious family atmosphere suitable for their children's growth from the following aspects.
(1) Parents give their children sincere love, keep step with each other, and jointly undertake the obligation of educating their children.