Listen patiently.
Parents' minds are focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems. Therefore, they may find that children's behavior is actually excusable and let them dare to express their emotions, which not only exercises their language expression ability, but also cultivates their courage, and also releases a lot of negative emotions for their children.
Really put down your posture
Don't always give orders to children, telling them to "should do this" and "should do that", but give them multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions. If the child is old enough and has no problem with expression ability, he can also let the child come up with solutions or alternatives and become a guide and helper for the child.
Let the children experience it.
If children always don't listen to adults, parents can let their children experience it on the premise of ensuring safety and not having adverse consequences. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand their parents' good intentions.
Coordinate with children
Don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults, so not only children are suffering, but even adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back.
The combination of education and life
Parents should teach their children the truth of life in actual situations, and the inspiration and shock brought by something is the best educational moment. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others.