In fact, I think many of his lyrics reflect his thoughts on the impermanence of fate. Life is so impermanent in the light, life is like a mountain in a canoe, and the maze of this world is integrated in the love of life, which figure is not drifting away when one day is old. He is helpless about the impermanence of fate. However, I hope I have experienced this cruel and unpredictable life, whether it is sadness or happiness. I am optimistic and tough enough to face all this, so my children don't have to bear all this for no reason. This may be his pessimism and optimism.
Li Jian and his wife are both from Harbin. They are a family. He was 10 years old when he first met his future wife. At that time, "Little Shell" (the nickname of Li Jian's wife) was still held by her mother. Later in high school, Li Jian saw her again at a wedding. At that time, the girl was already very slim. After Li Jian was sent to Tsinghua University, she was still in middle school. She may also have a kind of admiration for Li Jian, who is studying in Tsinghua. Slowly, two of a kind's me finally came together. And this "childhood sweetheart" relationship has gone through 3 1 year today.
"Little Shell" was originally named Meng Xiaobei, and Dr. Tsinghua was widely heard on the Internet, but it was not found according to fan search. Li Jian's wife's real identity was Dr. Beijing Normal University, but her tutor was Dr. Tsinghua. You can also feel her poetic life in her Weibo (because fans find it disturbing purity, stop ...). She loves poetry, photography, gardening and cooking. The two seniors got together perfectly, playing the piano and making tea, making pottery and planting flowers, and whispering to each other, turning the dull days into poems.
In Li Jian's songs, you can also hear many music works inspired by "Little Shells". In addition to the most famous legend, the song "Birds Sleeping Next to Me" describes the feeling of waking up in the morning to see your beautiful wife around, while in the song "Violet", I invited my wife Meng Xiaobei to sing.
In recent years, Li Jian has kept a low profile on the issues of family and wife. On the issue of not having children, Li Jian once said in interviews with women all over the world that not having children was mainly because he didn't want it. In an interview with inherit the wind, Brother Jian once said that he felt that if he had children, he would devote himself to the work of raising and educating them, but he couldn't because of his own work. When asked about the issue of carrying on the family line, he once replied: "My genes are not good enough to be inherited by people …" He is a very introspective person and lives very clearly. Li Jian said, "We have been brainwashed by collectivism since childhood, but in this era, I put more emphasis on personal life. Personal life is paramount and personal values are respected. This is really a good society. A civilized society means respecting everyone's life. "
Yes, everyone has the right to choose the life they want. I also sincerely wish Li Jian and Little Shell a happy and poetic life.