1. Establish correct values. After a child steals something from others, parents should help the child analyze the mistakes of his own behavior and help the child distinguish what is their own and what is others'. Let the children bear this responsibility, no matter how light the responsibility is, even if they just need an apology, the children should let their parents do it themselves. Only in this way can children fully realize the mistakes of their actions.

2, pay attention to meet the requirements of children, the reason why children have this behavior is nothing more than a lack of security or joy because there is no such thing. In daily life, as long as children have their own favorite things within a reasonable range that the family can bear, parents should try their best to meet their children's requirements, which will also increase their happiness and prevent them from making mistakes as much as possible.

3. Don't beat and scold children. It is absolutely not allowed to beat and scold children after they are found stealing. Otherwise, not only can children not know their wrong behavior, but they may lie to avoid this punishment next time. Parents had better understand that it is far more useful to analyze the pros and cons of a thing calmly than to pick up a broom and scream and scold at the top of their lungs.

After discovering that children steal, as parents, they should take the following measures:

1, Calm down: Finding children stealing will make parents feel angry, disappointed or depressed, but before taking action, you need to calm down and control your emotions.

2. Talk to your child: Talk frankly with your child, ask him/her why he/she wants to steal, and let your child know that stealing is wrong and will bring bad consequences. At the same time, listen to the child's explanation and encourage him/her to speak frankly about his/her thoughts and feelings.

3. Cultivate discipline: Children need to know that stealing is against family rules and needs to be disciplined. Develop appropriate disciplines, such as limiting the time spent watching toys and TV, and let children know that the consequence of stealing is to lose what they like.

4. Educate children: Help children to establish correct values and behavior habits by educating them how to identify appropriate behaviors and wrong behaviors, and how to deal with their own emotions and problems.

5. Give support: Children may steal things because of insecurity or other problems, and need parents' attention and support. Parents need to patiently guide their children and help him/her get out of the wrong behavior.

To sum up, to deal with the problem of children stealing, parents need to face it calmly, frankly and rationally and take appropriate measures to help children establish correct values and behavior habits.

Legal basis:

Twelfth "People's Republic of China (PRC) public security management punishment law"

Those who have reached the age of 14 but under the age of 18 who violate the administration of public security shall be given a lighter or mitigated punishment; Persons under the age of fourteen who violate the administration of public security shall not be punished, but their guardians shall be ordered to strictly discipline them.

Article 49

Theft, fraud, looting, looting, extortion or intentional damage to public or private property shall be detained for not less than five days but not more than ten days, and a fine of not more than 500 yuan may be imposed; If the circumstances are serious, he shall be detained for more than 10 and less than 15, and may also be fined less than 1000 yuan.