Sometimes, because parents pay too much attention to their children's superficial needs and ignore their invisible psychological needs, even if their children are born with excellent conditions, they cannot get the development they deserve. When a child wants to run and play, some parents will ban him for fear of injury;

In this case, children will develop the habit of inactivity, become physically late, weak and sick, and their intellectual development will inevitably be hindered, and their personality will become timid, lack of self-confidence and unable to face difficulties. Parents must understand that caring is spiritual communication, not behavioral intervention. Too much intervention will hinder the development of children's potential.

Step 2 be willful

Spoiling is a common problem in many families, and children are unconditionally satisfied with any requirements, whether spiritual or material. Children can always be satisfied, and his ability to resist setbacks is not exercised, which is easy to form personality shortcomings such as loneliness, arrogance, willfulness and selfishness.

Teacher Hao Bin, a famous psychologist, thinks that parents should pay more attention to their children's mental health and seek suitable educational methods according to their personality characteristics, so as to prevent "simple and rude" and "excessive doting". It is necessary to find problems early and seek professional help to solve them in time. Don't let psychological problems seriously affect children's life and study, and ultimately affect their lifelong happiness.

3. Encourage the growth of seedlings.

Some parents, regardless of their children's development, force them to learn to stand, walk and write early, resulting in a serious imbalance between their body and mind, and problems such as bad temper, anxiety, indifference and withdrawal, and may also lead to problems such as refusing to learn and not knowing how to live in harmony with others.

4. Excessive autocracy

Regularly regulating children's actions with a loud voice, restricting children's freedom and denying children's ideas will make children in a state of panic for a long time, unable to express themselves, and only know how to be passive in Nuo Nuo, which will make them lose their confidence and courage to try new things.

In addition, children will bully their younger children in order to vent their dissatisfaction. When children grow up, they are more likely to bear a grudge against their parents and vent their accumulated dissatisfaction back to their parents.

5. You look grim

Children can't feel the serious love of their parents. Putting on a stern face will only make children flinch from their parents. Parents should avoid blaming their children with harsh words, and even if their children are not doing well enough, they should give them gentle suggestions to make them easy to accept.

Many parents have high expectations for their children, but they are stingy in praising them. They often put on an elder face and blame their children, thinking that this is education, but in fact they ignore the wonderful educational effect brought by praise.

Step 6 ignore the advantages

I feel that children have no strengths, and even if they do, parents take it for granted. China people are modest, so some parents are not used to praising their children in front of others, and sometimes they criticize them casually.

In fact, parents' evaluation of children is the basis for children to establish their self-image. If his shortcomings are often mentioned, children will doubt their abilities, which will not only affect their self-confidence, but even think that they are useless, so they will not make progress.