The current situation in our country is that schools are basically large classes. Recently, the Ministry of Education ordered the number of classes in schools to be controlled at 45-50. However, a class of 45 students also means that 1 teachers have to face 45 students in class. How to teach students in accordance with their aptitude?
The main purpose of custody institutions and training institutions is to make profits. A few custodians have a slightly sound management system and may be more patient with their children. However, it is impossible to have one-on-one counseling like parents, and it is even more impossible to have a deep understanding of children's psychological state and problems encountered in learning. Not to mention discovering the advantages of children and guiding them, so that children can develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses on the road of growth. In addition, if you meet some teachers who don't continue to study, don't understand the child's psychological growth, or even have psychological problems, it may bring many negative effects to the child, such as labeling the child with some bad labels ("This child is poor in concentration") and so on. ), which will lead to more serious psychological problems for children, thus affecting their normal study and development.
? It can be seen that schools and other institutions cannot replace family education. You don't educate your children, but expect others to give you an excellent child? More and more reports show that those excellent children have parents to accompany them to grow up and study together.
? Some people say that "it is difficult for poor families to have expensive children." Although wealthy family conditions can indeed create many learning opportunities for children, I think that even if the family's economic conditions are average, if parents can make use of some free learning resources around them, they can not only continue their studies by themselves, but also lead and accompany their children to study together, such a family can also cultivate very excellent children. On the other hand, if a wealthy family, parents don't spend time teaching their children, but only provide them with money, even if a child with excellent grades is finally cultivated, it may not be a healthy and caring child, and it may not be able to achieve a happy future for a child. Because education is not only about knowledge, but also about life. Whether your child has a good relationship with you is related to whether he can establish a close relationship with others and a happy family in the future.
How do parents who work full-time take care of family education? What I want to say is that if at least one of the husband and wife is not busy with work and does not work overtime, they will not have to be busy with housework when they come back, and they can concentrate on giving their children sports, games, study and character education. Parents should spend more time talking with their children in depth every day to find out what problems their children have encountered. Under the guidance of parents, children can find their own solutions. Know what children do well and what they don't do well in a day; Parents can also reflect on themselves with their children and find out where the character in life needs to be constantly revised; Knowing what children prefer to do and what children are most interested in and learn best can guide children to develop their interests continuously. Parents can provide various suggestions and resources to help him develop in the direction he is interested in. This can effectively help children to determine their favorite major when they fill in their volunteers for the college entrance examination in the future, instead of knowing that the exam is for the college entrance examination under the exam-oriented education system like most children, but they don't know that the road of life has just begun after the college entrance examination, and it is obviously a little late to ask for directions.
Parents should seize every opportunity to participate in their children's education. Recently, Tian Tian kindergarten is rehearsing graduation ceremony programs. She plays the peacock in the English drama The Proud Peacock. Last night, my teacher sent me an English line and asked me to practice with her. Because there was a piano lesson last night, we had to practice it three times after getting up in the morning and on our way to school. I didn't think it was enough, so I asked the teacher if she could give her more time to practice at home. I hope it can help her to be more accurate in tone expression and pronunciation and intonation. After communicating with the teacher, I won another day. When I come back in the evening, I will ponder over those sweet sentences and scenes and refer to other children rehearsing the play online, hoping to help her perform more accurately.
? Another example is learning English. Many parents spend money to send their children to English training institutions for fear that their children are not good at English or afraid to teach them. One week 1-2 classes, can they really learn English well? Training institutions often use games to guide children's English learning, which easily leads to children being impetuous and unable to settle down to learn a language. It is better to buy a set of suitable graded reading materials with original audio, and parents and children will follow, rehearse and compete together for 20 minutes each time, five times a week, which is more effective than training institutions. Plus some English children's songs to sharpen their ears, supplemented by excellent English cartoons and movies, to improve children's interest in learning English. If you keep learning like this, your child's English will definitely be greatly improved. This method tests parents' intentions and perseverance.
By participating in children's school education, parents can improve communication and exchanges with teachers, and teachers will also see the cooperation and efforts of parents, pay more attention to children's learning and give more opportunities. At the same time, through this opportunity, parents have also increased their interaction with their children to better understand what their children are learning, what family education needs to be strengthened, and what aspects their children are outstanding, so that parents can guide their children to develop their strengths. Good parent-child relationship is a solid cornerstone for children's growth. Parental companionship and education are the most important educational resources for children.