Children after the age of four need to be with their father, so that the father's strength will continue to influence the children, because the father loves the mountain.
There is a core, that is, parents should not do everything instead. What children are willing to do, even if it is wrong, is good, because only children who grow up in mistakes will become more and more capable.
A typical four-year-old likes adventure, hiking and excitement. He likes anything new, knows people he doesn't know, visits new places, plays new games, toys, activities and books. No one responds more positively to the entertainment ideas put forward by adults than him.
A typical four-year-old child has a quick reaction. He does everything quickly, and his interest shifts quickly. He does everything at once. He is not interested in perfection, but only in continuing to do the next activity.
Children of this age, both men and women, are mostly happy, energetic, lively, ridiculous, unrestrained and eager to try everything. He has changed a lot since he was three and a half years old. He often talks a little more, likes to brag a little, and sometimes he is domineering. These are all because he began to enter the field of self-expression, which was caused by novelty and excessive excitement. A three-and-a-half-year-old child is characterized by strong resistance to the demands of adults, perhaps because in his mind, adults are omnipotent. Four-year-olds don't do this. He seems to have taken a big step forward. He found that although adults still hold power, they are not omnipotent. At the same time, he also found himself very powerful. From his point of view, bad things can be done, and the roof will not collapse because of it.
No matter what ideas you come up with, a four-year-old child will happily accept your proposal without comment, so it is a happy thing to give toys, books, clothes, experiences or information to children of this age. Because no matter what you give him, his eyes will shine.
Although the four-year-old child loves many things, his emotions are extreme. He loves a lot and hates a lot. No one can tell what aroused his hatred. But whatever it is, within a reasonable range, his feelings should be fully respected.
Four-year-olds have strong feelings for their mothers. If something changes his mother's eyes, he will show a particularly strong hatred for it. He may hate his mother wearing some jewelry, he may not like her changing her hair style, or there is a special expression on her face telling him that she doesn't like him, and he may especially hate this expression. There is no doubt that adults should always cooperate with the quickness and impetuousness of a four-year-old child.
Four-year-olds like to expand outward, and sometimes even he can't stand it. Therefore, he still likes and respects those limited norms, but he doesn't always take them to heart. You have to remind him often.
A four-year-old child always wants to go out, but he doesn't obey the rules. However, if he is careful, he can be trusted. Before he was four and a half years old, many children could assure their parents that they were allowed to play outdoors without supervision. However, the child wanted to know where to play, so he stopped. If this need is combined with his habit of expanding outward, a four-year-old child will show the oldest feature of his age-he likes to go beyond the scope.
So many four-year-olds like these verbal restrictions, such as farthest to the tree and farthest to the door. Even if you tell him whether to do it or not, he will abide by these rules.
A normal, energetic and talented four-year-old child seems to behave in all areas of life.
In action, if he is provoked, he will kick, hit and vomit, and if something happens to him, he may run away from home. Happy or unhappy, he is always impulsive.
Emotionally, he is also extremely restless. When things make him happy, he laughs, and when things are wrong, he cries. He laughs more than he cries, and likes to watch others laugh. In fact, he often looks like a fool.
However, what is striking is his exaggeration in language expression. He often boasts that it is as high as a day, and 100,000 bugs are as big as a house. He will also brag that mine is bigger. Besides bragging, he also bragged. Boys will call each other by their masculine names instead of their real names to adjust their masculinity.
At the age of four, he is very interested in the process of defecation and his own excrement. Children are particularly fascinated by defecation. When he goes out for a walk, he can even recognize every place where the dog poops.
Four-year-olds often shut up. If it is disgusting. Shit, it's a common dirty word.
If any friend offends him, he may say that he is a shit egg. Generally speaking, children will use such nouns and descriptions on people they don't accept.
Parents need to be more careful about their words and deeds. On the other hand, if children don't use real dirty words, they will criticize adults with words that are almost insulting and threatening.
If this happens, you don't have to persuade him angrily, but tell him calmly, is that right? Or blink your eyes to show that you understand the truth, so that he will often tell the truth soon.
A four-and-a-half-year-old child is unpredictable.
The four-and-a-half-year-old child is very interested in the truth of things, which shows his uncertainty. Is it true?/You don't say. /You don't say. This question is his pet phrase.
Children aged four and a half are very interested in collecting new information. At the same time, he can perfect the skills he has learned before. He is not as wild as when he was four years old, and he can tolerate setbacks. But in emotional management, it is very elusive, always crying and laughing at once, and it becomes very fast.
A four-and-a-half-year-old child will become stubborn if he is hindered. At this time, it is not as easy to distract him in other ways as when he was four years old.
Four-and-a-half-year-old children gradually understand authority. When their parents blame him, there will be an expression on his face that has never been seen before-confusion, listening and fear. When parents see this expression, they may want to obey his request, which may be the time to bargain with him.
From this time on, children gradually understand whether things are good or bad.
During this period, his happiest thing is to listen to some short stories before going to bed.
He likes to hear stories about how bad and good his parents were when they were young.
Skills to get along with four-year-olds:
1, share with him and create together.
2. Ignore his bad behavior.
3. Accept his boasting.
4. scold him (if the child attacks you with rude words, you can also play a game of scolding with him to liberate his depressed emotions. When you scold him, you really should scold him: you are a crushed caterpillar. This stupid abuse will last until your laughter replaces your anger.
5. Give him a period of exclusive time.
6. Give oral norms.
7. Discuss with him.
8. Try to avoid trouble.
9. Don't talk on the phone (four-year-olds hate their mothers talking on the phone).
10, with front guidance.
1 1. Use the secret language.
12. Speak in a low voice instead of shouting.
13, sometimes even if you don't take precautions, you are bragging.
Talk to him wholeheartedly.
Choose TV programs carefully.